The marriage was not over but you did put him out and he called you everyday he was away. And he was only gone for 2 days
2006-10-20 14:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by SexyT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The marriage is over. take my advice my husband of 25 yrs cheated before we were married I thought I could change him After my second child was born he cheated he said he thought I would neglect him. We recently had another child she is a beautiful little girl she is 11 mo old he started his affair when she was 2 wks old and is still at it. We are still married but he does not come near me because that is the way I want it. Everyday he calls me and says he loves me. But I checked his cell phone she text him all day and he text her back and call each other all the time. Even though I still love him I dont want him anymore.
Love has changed and there is a lot of mistrust. once a cheat always a cheat.
2006-10-20 17:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is providing you with an earful of the identical bulls*** that every one cheaters have up their sleeve. He was once "stuck" in whatever?? Please, supply me a holiday!! He's a GROWN ADULT who makes offerings in the whole thing he does. He made a aware alternative to disrespect you and the bond he had with you. He made a *alternative* to utterly disrespect your loved ones. Do you think for a moment that he didn't CHOOSE to be on this chat room, he did not CHOOSE to keep the "relationships" with those females over the sort of lengthy interval of time?? C'mon! He is a liar and a cheater. Now, he would possibly nonetheless "love" his loved ones - finally, that is his "relief zone", it is amusing to play residence, have children, all these things. But he wishes the fine of each worlds, and more often than not this implies hurting and disrespecting those who love you, again and again. Please do not suppose that now that he acquired stuck he could miraculously "difference". The urges are nonetheless there, and it is just the problem of time he begins up once more - this time, he's going to most often be extra wary. I actually do not know if I could ever forgive this sort of habits, this is not a trifling slip, it is a planned motion taht speaks volumes of the culprit. I desire you fine of success in making your resolution.
2016-09-01 00:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that man alone...dont answer his calls or anything....Remember: Once a cheat, Always a cheat!
You deserve better than that!
2006-10-20 14:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes trying to have his cake and eat it too@!#!@!
He feels bad ..not because he cheated but because he got caught..I'm not saying you need to divorce him I'm saying tread really really carefully or he will in deed be full from all that cake!!!!!
2006-10-20 14:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, you said "the marriage was not over" so he cheated. Once a cheater......................
2006-10-21 01:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kicked him out leave him alone. Move on with your life. Good luck and have fun with your future.
2006-10-20 14:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you put him out was not the first time he cheated -- trust me he has done it before
2006-10-20 14:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by always helpful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling, if can not change then ask least you tried to save your marriage
2006-10-20 14:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him back in then you deserve everything you get
2006-10-20 14:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made a mistake, a BIG one, dump his butt.
2006-10-20 17:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋