im in love with a married man .....he just turned 24 and got a wife im younger dan him ima teen im 15 ...he knows my age and me and him been talking since b4 he got married ...me and him had sex 5 times in his wife house in their bed he tells me their realationship is going all wrong and he needs a female like me to be on his side ... he comes and gets me 4rm skoo takes me out to eat he takes me to his job he talks to me all night long ..he tells me stuff like if u was my age i would devorce jazmin (his wife) and marry u ...... the only reason he is with her is because right know she is pregnant and he douse not want to sai nothing to her untill after she has the baby ...he told me he wants me to have his baby ..... i spend nights over they house wile jazmine was sleeping at her mothers house ... devonte (the married man) tells ppl im his girl .... he tells every1 im his wife ...me and jazmine got at it 1 time i beat her *** devonte had to pull me of her and she dont know how old i am
2006-10-20 14:07:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you are 15.....he is playing you for a fool......firstly his married...that should be enough for you to stay away.....if his marriage is rocky then he should leave her and then start dating other people....secondly again you are 15....he could be charged with sex with a minor......i wouldnt be too proud of what you are doing......many men promise to leave their wife and never do.....
end it now.....and live your life without him in it....and remember if he can do this to his wife......he can and will do it to you.....
2006-10-20 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is committing statutory rape, and could go to jail. Do you want to see him in jail? You are 15, he is a grown 24 year old man. HE IS NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE. That story has been told to so many women, and out of love they fall for it. He has to much to lose by divorcing her, especially with a new baby coming. This is not cute. Have you ever heard the term " what goes around, comes around"? That is real, Whatever you intentionally do to hurt someone it will come back on you. You are hurting that woman and that child. Right now you probably don't care, but CARMA is real.
You have no business fighting that woman over HER husband. It doesn't matter that you were with him before he got married. The bottom line is HE MARRIED HER. If he was so in love with you, he would have waited for you, until you were of age. He is committing a crime. You are under age. The law would call it rape.
If you love him like you say you do, STOP THIS NOW, before he goes to jail. Then do you really think he's going to be with you, seeing that he is locked up because of you. Trust this, his time will come, he is a rapist and a adulterous.
Leave him alone...
2006-10-20 14:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always do what is morally right even if it breaks some hearts. A 24 year old man who is having sex with a 15 year old girl is comitting the crime of statutory rape. It is a crime because his being older, he can manipulate you into making decisions you are not ready to make. Every man who wants some action on the side tells the other woman the kind of things he is telling you. Most older women know not to believe it, so he is targeting a 15 year old so he has someone to use for some extra sex. I hope you do leave this situation, but my real prayer is that you realize that the way he is using you is not right, and that he will just do it to someone else if he is not stopped, and that you notify the police.
2006-10-20 14:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's look at this logically. He is pretty young as are you. Reality says that he is married and apparently he isn't married to you. Now I'm attempting to add two and two together. Ahh, yes! Wait a minute, why did he marry this woman to begin with? There are few possibilities ,but I'm going to go with something that may seem a bit odd to you. He liked her an awful lot just like he like you. Now think, he is currently cheating on her with you a.k.a. homewrecker junior edition. If he is cheating on her don't you think there might be even the slightest chance that he will cheat on you? Hmmm, just maybe. This persona of whom you speak is by society standards known as a "player" or jackass in my words. There is no rule that says a man must marry who he has knocked up and what advantage is he serving to wait until the baby is born to break to her the bad news? That will just leave her hanging in the wind. Are you basically saying that simply because you have a liking for this pathetic bastard you are going to take his side and become his back door mistress? You are only 15 and that is far too young to think you know anything about about the world. He himself it seems is mentally too young to be making these decisions. Plain and simple, leave the situation. It sounds like a big, freakin' mess. You being there makes your life and theirs an even bigger mess. What will happen when you get pregnant? Will he get tired of you too and say things are going "all wrong"?
2006-10-20 14:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you're walking in a minefield. You need to stop fooling yourself. This man just wants a way out of something he should never have got into. Maybe he does like you. But you are too young to be messing around with people like this. By the spelling of your question you'd be better off at school instead.The broken hearts thing doesn't apply here. He could even go to jail for sleeping with you. If you love him send him away to sort his life out(and you yours) If there is real love, you can be patient.Time is on your side. Don't mess up 3 lives, most of all yours.Good Luck!!
2006-10-20 14:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by kwenzini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl... I'm sorry for you, he is only stringing you alone because if you tell the police he's life is ruined, you are just young and stupid, the guy is 24, married, cheating on his wife, you beat the poor woman, she is going to have a baby.. Don't you see anything wrong with this picture??? Do you think you are so hot that he will be with you the rest of your life??? Sorry the future looks bleak for you,m you can't cause so much pain and be left without a scratch/, you should be ashamed of yourself
2006-10-20 14:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friend you need to grow up. This man has you and his wife twisted around his finger and if he could he would have you pregnant also and be telling someone else how everything in his life is going all wrong.
Why are you taking someone leftovers? You are too young for that.
He is scum of the earth so wake up and smile the coffee.
2006-10-20 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by noice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious if you stop seeing him you wont be breaking his heart he is a ******* married man and you are only 15. They never leave their wives duh! Damn girl at 15 you are supposed to be having crushes and getting numbers from young guys around your age and having little flings not falling in love with a married man. Why is you trying to fight the wife she is the one that has the ring.all you doing is playing yourself and falling into the trap that some older guys play on young girls. You need to leave it alone. all that you are doing could come right back to harm you. Karma is a *****.
2006-10-20 14:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by BonitaMami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... you played right into that perverts hands, bought into all his lies and bribes... a truly good man would kno better than to ever get involved with a 15 yr old if he was over 18, let alone 24 and THAT IS A FACT LIKE IT OR NOT. i'm sorry but he doesnt love you, ur just a young piece of *** to him.
2006-10-20 14:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cole 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally... I dont think you should pursue things with this man, he will probably end up huring you. I mean really look at what he's doing to his wife. what would keep him from doing it to you? It's probably better to hurt now than later, you'll probaly hurt more that way. but do what your heart desires, just be careful the heart is strong but it is fragile. ;) good LUCK!
2006-10-20 14:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting into big trouble and so is he. Do you have parents and where are they when you are with him.You know he is probably never going to leave his wife, unless she finds out what a pig he is and leaves him.you are young and you don't need to be in a relationship like this one.
2006-10-20 14:13:51 · answer #11 · answered by bettylou29691 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋