My x-boyfriend and I have been talking about getting back together. We were together for almost 5 years. He is the only father my son knows. Since we split up I moved in with my mom because I have alot of bills and couldn't afford to live on my own. I have health problems so I spend alot of money just on medicines. Mom told me that if we get back together than she's going to kick me out! Well I told my x and now he wont even talk to me! I need advice.
2006-10-20 13:34:54 · 4 answers · asked by chrisser 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we broke up because he spent more time with his friends than us.
2006-10-20 14:37:26 · update #1
your mom doenst have any right to say anything. your grown. shell get mad but shell get over it. and if not then thats a red flag to be concerned of her true feelings to begin with.whats really going on here. why would he just stop talking to you for something so simple. 1-he probable wants no part of what seems to be mere drama. 2-is he trying to get in because to have some else support him?3-hes trippen. cant really say without more background. if he treats you and the kids good, he loves you like you want, and helps out financially when he can, then follow your heart, im sure the kids missing him . good luck. physicall abuse??????never mind
2006-10-20 13:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by jewels102006@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.) it's not nice what your mom said, but she does have a right to say it, as you are living in her house. Plus she knows more about the whole situation than we do.
2,) Remember why you broke up?
3.) if now he won't talk to you, what does that say about him?
4.) Sounds like you really just need help with money/bills, you never mentioned "love" in your question, just money, medicines, kid, etc.
5.) I'd stay with your mom, she's the person that's been looking out for what's in your best interest and for your son.
6.) you say that this man is the only father your son knows. How many of them are there? And does that really make him the best "father figure" just because you haven't met someone worthy YET?
I'm tired of listing things, according to my MAGIC 8ball . . .
OUTLOOK NOT SO GOOD
2006-10-20 20:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say why the two of you split up so I assume you don't wish to tell that part
If you have a good relationship with your mom which must be ok because she let you and your son move in maybe you should find out why she doesn't care for him and listen to her moms usually know best
2006-10-20 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by oct2855 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him right now is not a good time to get back together.
List all the reason out in a nice way:
1) i have a lot of bills to pay.
2) i need a place to live
3) my mom is going to kick me out if i go back out with u
4) tell him lets talk about this when your life is stable.
Tell him as much as i want to go back out with u right now lets just be friends.
Tell him u hope he will understand.
2006-10-20 20:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋