I'm 14 black male and in 10th grade and just moved to florida from maryland and very quiet but girls come up and say hi but I dont know what to talk about with them and what conversations to have with them so I sit on the step and listen to my ipod seeing the couples of school holding hands and kissing wondering to myself why can't I have that lifestyle there are alot of attractive girls at school but I can't talk to them There is a very attractive girl named felicia who rides my bus and one day she sitting across from me and taps my leg and ask my name I tell her thinking in my head what to say next but can't think of anything like an *** and the trip home there is a silence between us which seems to disapoint her she says hi in the hallway from now and then but we dont carry a conversation or anything like that I would just like to talk to any girl without thinking of what to say next and walking the hallways alone PLEASE HELP ME ANYBODY PLEASE
2006-10-20 13:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Umm... try asking her who her favorite teacher at the school is...
if she likes any sports... is she a member of any of the schools clubs... if she plans on going to college after high school...
...if shes always lived in florida... how she likes living in florida... does she ever wish she lived somewhere else... what she likes most about living there... does she plan to stay there after high school... what kind of a career she wants..
2006-10-20 13:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you want to do is relax. When you approach an uncomfortable situation such as this you have to remain comfortable. I must say at times a young lady appriciates a young man who is comfortable talking to them. Not intimidated sort of speak. A very attractive young lady kinda knows she is attractive and has been told this many times. You can score points with her by not concentrating on her outer apperaence and more on her and what she has to say. What are some of her interest?..what are some of your interest?..make it a point to find out what they are and talk about them. At this age a good movie can break the ice..keep in mind she is a girl...(girls don't always go for the action,horror movies). The important thing is you have to get het talking about herself and interest and find the common denominator. This may take several attemps. Be consistent but not insistent. Be patient. Try to be honest. Girls grow up to be ladies and they have always been partial to honesty. If you just want to sleep with her or you really like her be honest with yourself and procede accordingly. Always be a gentlemen. Even when she may not deserve it...it shows charachter in you. Be mindful of your own feelings. Don't always let everybody know what you feel and are thinking...wait till you feel the other person is trust worthy and then procede. remember trust takes time. Be patient. If rejected, try not to get upset and realize it will be the other persons loss. Be preparred for it. People like to play games sometime becouse they themselves were once played or made subject to someone elses game. hope I helped. Relize conversating is an art and takes time and patience to perfect. We all have somthing to say..just make sure you listen.
2006-10-20 21:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by keats b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your personality that counts. It truly doesn't count number what you seem as if. try chatting with her and change into acquaintances consisting of her first. perhaps this is going to bring about something later...and if no longer, there are a number of of impressive women accessible. you're literally not a loser. i'm a grade ten woman and that i comprehend all of that common and unpopular stuff happening, and frequently I too opt to be like the common human beings, yet then I comprehend that they don't seem to be truly all that large. this is outstanding that she's so impressive and is chatting with you, in basic terms be your self round her, and don't be depressed! You sound like an extremely impressive and sweet guy, so do not say that you're a loser! i don't think of you're a loser in any respect, truly the option, you in basic terms must have some extra self-worth and self assurance. solid success, i desire you change into acquaintances consisting of her, and shop your hopes up! P.S. you're literally not a loser, not in any respect overlook that :)
2016-12-05 01:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SO EXCITED TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION! The best advice I can give to any man about conversating with a woman---is to just ask her questions about herself. Women loooooooove to talk about themselves, and any guy who is/acts interested is bound to hold a womans attention. Ask her things about herself, her family, where shes lived. More she gets to talk about her---the easier it is for you---all you have to do is the question asking.
2006-10-20 18:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenmimo7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋