If my husband has not been pulling out , why am I not pregnant is there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

yes, it's called desperation.

To be asking us as if we are doctors???

what a wonderfully smart women you must be. Go to the doctor if you really want to know what's wrong with you.

Answer 2

No there is probably nothing wrong with you. Healthy couples only have a 25% chance of conceiving every month. The best thing you can do is know when you ovulate, and have sex 2 days before you ovulate, on the day you ovulate, and 2 days after. And don't have too much sex the other times of the month--it will lower your husband's sperm count. Try not to stress out either--that won't help you conceive at all. If this has been going on for over a year though, I'd see a fertility doctor.

Answer 3

Its a lot harder to become pregnant than most people think. After you ovulate your egg is only good for 12-48 hours before it starts to disintegrate. This is the most fertile period of your cycle and when your chances of conception are the highest. Ovulation usually happens around the 14th day of a regular 28-day cycle. So don't stress the more you stress about it the harder it will be. If you go for a year or more without getting pregnant, consult your doctor, they can offer options and/or explanations.

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong with u, u are just not charting everything correctly..Most women on a regular cycle ovulate about 14-16 days before your period...say your period comes on the 25th every month..u are most likely ovulating on the 12th but are fertile from about the 9th to the 13th..because sperm can live inside a womens body for 3-5 days and your egg stays fertile for 24-48 hours after ovulation...charting your cervical mucous can help u out a lot in trying to concieve as well. as u get closer to ovulation u will notice some clear discharge that is kinda sticky in texture..u can chart this mucous by inserting one or 2 fingers inside and reaching back as far as u can to your cervix and then checking your fingers afterwards...*not gross* if u notice ANY clear mucous like discharge that is slippery then u should start trying for your baby..when u reach your fertile peak which is when u are most fertile and ovulating then u will have A LOT of that mucous discharge..it will be clear,slimey and very stretchy..will resemble snot or semen..after having intercourse make sure u lay with your legs in the air and your hips elevated with a pillow underneath for 10-15 minutes,this allows the sperm to swim closer to the cervix faster. also, if ur man is wearing briefs or any tight undergarment have him switch to boxers, do not have sex everyday to liken your chances of concieving*have sex only during your fertile period and when u are ovulating...this will build up his sperm supply and make his sperm much stronger..Try these out and im sure u will fall pregnant very soon...Good Luck!!

Answer 5

Not necessarily. Sometimes it takes a while to get pregnant, and this is perfectly normal. Not all women get pregnant like rabbits..
If you are stressing about it, that can cause it to take longer too. If you know when you're ovulating it will help so get an ovulation kit, and find out if you don't already know. If you are really stressing go to an OB/GYN and get tested. But it is probably nothing to worry over.

Answer 6

There are SO many things that could be "wrong" with either one of you. Your not considered infertile until you've been trying for one year with no success. My ob-gyn says that only 70% of the couples trying to get pregnant, do so in the first year. There's a lot of fertility problems out there ex: your tubes blocked, his sperm count low, your not ovulating. You'd have to have some tests done by your doctor.

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong!!!! Well, there are many reasons why you may not be pregnant. Did you just get off the pill? Are you possitioning yourself to guide the sperm after sex? Do you know when you are the most fertle? These are things that you need to think about if you are planning to get pregnant. I would read up on conception so you get the idea of what is going to happen and what needs to happen for it to happen.

Answer 8

It'll happen when you're body is ready.

My husband wasn't pulling out for 4 years and we didn't get pregnant either. I just tried to keep my mind off of trying to conceive -- I was trying not to get so obessed over it. It was heartbreaking everytime we got a negative result, but it eventually happened.

Good luck!

Answer 9

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I think you might be missing your "open window" time for ovulation. That usually occurs between 10-14ish days after your last period. Also if you are stressing over getting pregnant, your chances of getting pregnant get slim because of your stress. I hope this answered your question.

Answer 10

Well, How long have you been trying for? It takes an average healthy couple 6 months to a year to conceive even if they are having sex on ovualtion day. I got lucky and conceived my first 3 the first time, but it took me 5 months to conceive my 4th one and that was with using ovulation predictor kits, ovultion calendars and learning the signs of ovualtion.