i used to be that kid everyone hated
i am still misunderstood
but, im becoming a better person, slowliy but surely...
how do i stop the hate?
2006-10-20 13:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by God 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't control other people, their actions, or their reactions. YOU are the only person you can control. YOU are the only one that can choose what you do, how you will be, how you react to others.
Continue to concentrate on YOU - on becoming the person you want to be. Others will come around in their own time. You can't control their reactions - only your own.
2006-10-20 13:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really depends on what you're doing to be the one that people hate. It is extremely hard to change yourself now that you have always been like the way you are. Even if you do a complete 360, you will still revert back to the characteristics you displayed when you were not well-liked. It also depends on how old you are. I am guessing that you are either in high school or college, so my suggestion would be to just start being nice to people. Be polite (i.e., say please and thank you, hold the door for people when you go somewhere, if you take public transportation give your seat up for a woman (especially an elderly woman), say bless you when someone sneezes, or offer to help someone if they have dropped their belongings). Compliment people on different things. I hope this helps.
2006-10-20 20:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u see everything that is happening to us has a purpose,
it can make us a better person,..
all of our experiences have its lessons to learn.
its not trough alays tru positive way or thing but its more helpful and really gives a good relief afterwards if it is on a not so pleasant way,..
u see how can u feel hapiness if u havent been sad,.. right
how come ull be experincing boredome if u havent been busy,.
u may not know or feel such thing if u havent feel of know what its like to be on the otherside,..
so if u are a deep person,.. ull get wat i mean,..
just welcome all the problems and the pain that comes on ur way cause from that ull become a better person,.
2006-10-20 20:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happened to me in 3rd grade. I started playing football then everybody noticed me. I became one of the popular kid, quit football, and started playing basketball and soccer.
2006-10-20 20:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Aliza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can hate whoever they want. They must have had a good reason to hate you. "Everyone" can't be wrong, can they? I hate you too.
2006-10-20 20:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Reality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant...ppl are going to hate you no matter what....thats life...u just have to learn to igonre those idiots who hate you...
2006-10-20 20:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I thought God had all the answers ! ;)
2006-10-20 20:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by vik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change ppl u can change your self
2006-10-20 20:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by maluchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it and move forward.
2006-10-20 20:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋