Well most of the time if one wrong thing is said an argument is sure to happen, blown out of porportion, and our relationship is almost over.
2006-10-20 13:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by Rhonda R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can tell him that if he does not get help for his problem with alcohol that you will leave him. There is not much else that will work.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-20 13:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well communication is very very important in a relationship, im sure you know this but sometimes you can know things but not execute them. Both people have to be willing to both give and receieve criticism...in ur situation.. that they drink to much. One way i could think of how to confront them without just flat out nagging them would be...wait until you get into the situation, rather it be at dinner, or a bar, or a club, but when you think they've had enought just say a little something like..."you really think you need another" ..or "you dont need another we still have all night" or any other kind of little phrase you think they would take best and listen too. But if one one little wrong thing is stated and yall argue immediately enough to where ur relationship is almost over...sounds like you may need to both sit down and talk about how to handle argueing so you can stay together longer....or you may need to rethink your status... i repeat ..communication is very very important in a relationship!
2006-10-20 20:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by roxybeach793 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your partner has a drinking problem, they need to seek help. any nagging will just make it worse. people aren't toys to play with and throw in a closet when bored.
2006-10-20 20:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i told my man,,,shape up or ship out,,,which he did because he knew i wasnt playing..and he didnt want to lose me and my son forever. He totally did an about face.
2006-10-20 20:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋