What would u do if you and your exboyfriend or exgirlfriend were to work at the same place but you were the first one to work there? But the only problem would be that you still love him or her but the other person doesn't anymore. How would you act? How would you make things better for yourself to make it easier to forget about him or her and move on? What would you do?
2006-10-20 12:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would consider my priorities first, that would be my job. The rest will change in time.
2006-10-20 12:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's got to be a difficult situation anytime you re in love with someone who doesn't feel the same towards you and in this case working together doesn't make it any easier. But since this is the case, you must know where to draw the line and not allow yourself to be hurt about the breakup it must have been the right move or else it would have been prevented through both of your efforts. Love is a two-way street. you must feel loved to truly be in LOVE if you know what I mean. Remind yourself that this is the best thing for you.Try to do little things that make YOU happy and enjoy life it has so much to offer and You don't want to waste it or your energy on anything that doesn't make you better. Keep your head up and NEVER let them know that you're hurting. Pretend if you have to dammit! Good Luck. Rhonda
2006-10-20 19:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in that situation, and looking for another job wasnt an option, I would do everything I could to avoid that person. Seeing that person everyday, especially when you still have feelings will make it that much harder to move on. One thing you might do is try to look back on your relationship and see what you can learn from it. there is a lesson to be learned from every relationship, and if you can find some sort of lesson about what you want in a relationship, how you want to be treated, or maybe how you might change and be a better person, it will help you a little to grow and move on. Other than that, I would just try to keep busy at work to keep my mind of off it. But in my opinion, finding a way to find a reason why the relationship helped you (i.e helped you learn somehting important to take with you) than I think it will really help you move forward and let go.
2006-10-20 19:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by faiths13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and regretfully I must admit that I made his life hell. I picked up on every little thing he did wrong, actively took the mick and in general made his life hard. Made me feel better at the time but now I regret it. He fortunately appreciated I was angry and hurt and let me get on with it. When i finally calmed down he approached me about trying to be friends and we are to this day. Sometimes you've got to be the bigger person and just get on with it. Avoid working too closely with him and keep distance as much as possible. It's not an ideal situation but it's not impossible. You'll find a nice guy who will blow you away and any thought s of your ex. S hang in there and don't do anything you'll regret later!
2006-10-20 19:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep my job and move on to a new boyfriend/girlfriend. There are a lot of people out there looking for the right partner. Let them know you are available and ignore the ex. Let him/ her stew when they see you with someone new! Laugh a lot and keep smiling. Don't wear your broken heart like an open book. Sometimes when we open up and pretend to be having a good time, all of a sudden we find out we really are enjoying life again!
2006-10-20 19:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by sistervoodoo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a rather difficult situation but the best solution is focusing on someone new, try as much as possible to find other prospects out there and you will see that in time your wounds will heal and you will be much more at peace.
2006-10-20 19:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love of affections are personal issues. But work in offices / work places are official things. You should not mix both but deal both in their proper situations.
2006-10-20 19:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not 2 dwell on the past if they do not have feelings 4 u so what move on keep ur mind on other things
2006-10-20 20:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tish Tish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him...Right? Then play it like this make him think about u and what he's been missing out on. You need to get him to come to you. reverse psychology. Honey
2006-10-20 19:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by sunbunnie72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the person and move on...
2006-10-20 19:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋