2006-10-20 12:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by Boricua Born 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
depends why they're sad...sometimes...words just aren't enough...just tell them you got their back and that your right there whenever they need you..
2006-10-20 12:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Person 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's something really serious, then i would try to get help form some people that know the situation.
But usually, you can:
- Talk to them, and be encouraging.
- Take them somewhere where they can have fun and forget about what they're sad about.
- Just be there for them whenever you can.
- Get them a gift that will cheer them up. It doesnt have to be expensive.
- Try to make them smile or laugh. Be funny.
Well, try some of those. I don't know if they will work or not, but i hope they will
Good Luck!
2006-10-20 12:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kalia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good thing to do is to now why he/she is sad. Next, think of things that they like and try to cheer them up. If it involves hurting someone in a non-playful manner i might say to refrain away from it but who am i to tell u that.
One last thing that works with some is to try to talk to them about the reason of why they are sad, tell them that they can tell you anything(only if true.) In the end just try to comfort them.
2006-10-20 12:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by GayLover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what your friend is upset about on what you could say. but maybe relate it to something that happend to u and say it will be alright and say how you got over what ever the problem was. just spend time with them. maybe take them to a fun place... a movie or something so they dont think about what there sad about so much. I hope he/she feels better!!! good luck.
2006-10-20 12:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by cassie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
La De Frickin Da! that usually works.....
No seriously though, it really depends on WHY they are sad, but just listening to them and cracking jokes usually helps....
Are YOU sad honey??????? Do YOU need some words??????
2006-10-20 14:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by conniechung 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would allow them to cry on my shoulder for awhile, then I would get a cool cloth and a cup of tea. After a bit, I would encourage them to talk about their troubles, and then try to point out everything that's good about their life.
2006-10-20 12:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take them out for a day on the beach - bit of sunshine works wonders.
2006-10-20 12:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i find them crying then i would walk up and rub their back, just to let them know that i'm there for them. then after they cryed then i would let them tell me what made them sad, if they wanted to. if they don't then i wouldn't push for the information.
2006-10-20 13:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find out what was wrong and make sure to let them know that they're not alone in w/e problem they're facing.
2006-10-20 12:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm...i had a similar situation..jst try makin him/her laugh or try goofin around... but it also depends on y deyr sad nd is it really serious or not
good luck!
2006-10-20 12:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋