do you think at alomost 15(in 2weeks) I should b trying to get pregnant?

Question

i'll be 15 on November 1st! Im a virgin. And I recently started dating a 18 year old.

I LOVE babies and all my lyfe i've basically been raising my 6 younger siblings so I know the responsibilities of parenting! i REALLY want a baby

Answer 1

Hun, you shouldn't have asked this question on here because all these people do is critisize. You can start trying to concieve if you want to. I am 15 and 28 weeks pregnant with a little girl and yes we were trying to concieve. If you have money to support your baby then there is no right or wrong age to get pregnant. Although you do need to talk to your boyfriend about it first. If he doesn't want a baby he might end up leaving you and your baby will need his or her daddy in their life. Also guys don't mature as fast as girls so maybe he isn't really ready for a baby. But with whatever you decide to do, GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

Don't ruin your life. You can check any website, ask ANYONE and they would be telling you that you're making a HUGE mistake. He's 18, he doesn't really and truly love you, and when you give birth, he's probably gonna leave. He doesn't have a career and a steady life, he probably isn't even out of High school yet! That's too early and KEEP YOUR VIRGINITY. You should respect yourself more than that. He just wants sex, he doesn't want a baby. If you tell him you're pregnant after all that, he'll be gone in no time, leaving you depressed and disoriented. You aren't even old enough for a job! Just forget about ever thinking this way, and if he doesnt respect you and your wishes to wait, then he doesn't deserve you!

Answer 3

You might be comfortable (and good) with children since you have experience with your siblings, but you can't even pay for a child! I don't know where you live, but a high school education is the BARE MINIMUM for success in life these days. And, trust me, the 18-year-old guy you're into now most likely won't be the guy you love in ten years. Finish high school, think about college, get a job, save some money...and then consider marriage and children.

Answer 4

Do you have a wedding ring on your finger?

Do you have health insurance?

Do you have money for childcare?

Do you have a home? Do you have a car?

The most valuable gifts a mother can give her child are a solid foundation, a stable and loving father, and a mom with something to offer too.

Making babies sounds so romantic. Having them is a different story. And by the way, they don't stay babies. Statistically, babies born to teen moms have more health and behavior issues than babies born to adults. Your child will probably grow up without a father, poor, and badly behaved. Sorry to be harsh, but it's the truth.

Answer 5

15 PLEASE i was a virgin until i was married.i dated a guy at 15 and we dated for 5 years and i never had sex are a baby on my mind.i only thought about school and my future.you are still a baby yourself.you need to think about how are you going to take care of a child at 15. who's going to give you a job at 15. how can you raise a baby if you haven't been raised.at 15 all you have to offer is love that's if you can even focus on that.your decision on having a baby right now is selfish . how will you go to prom if you don't have a babysitter. how can you hang out with your friends if you don't have a babysitter??????????????????????being a VIRGIN priceless don't do it until you are much more mature he is 18 you think hes a virgin you think he cares that you are enjoy your teenage life while you can

Answer 6

HELL NO!!!!!
U BETTER HOLD ON TO IT AS LONGAS U CAN RUN FROM SEX DONT WELCOME IT
YOUR VIRGINITY IS SO SPECIAL AND LOSING IT AND REGRETING IT LATER IS THE WORSE FEELING
BOYS CAN BE SO LIGIT WITH WHAT THEY SAY TO U
I LOVE YOU I WANT U I MEAN THEY CAN EVEN SHOW BUT THEY WILL DO WHATEVER THEY CAN TO GET SEX OUT OF U

DONT DO IT
EXPERIENCE IS NOTHING THATS NO REASON TO TRY TO HAVE SOME BABY U ARE WAY TO YOUNG IN THIS A LIFE LONG RESPONSIBILITY AND U AINT BEEN IN THE WORLD 16 YEARS

GET IT TOGETHER DONT BE STUPID
SEX CAN COST U YOUR LIFE

AIDS,SYPHILLIS,HERPES ANYTHING AND EITHER ONE OF THOSE DISEASES GO UNTREATED OR EVEN MISTREATED IT CAN KILL U

IS A 3 HOURS OR MORE DAY OF SEX WORTH YOUR LIFE AND FREEDOM
A CHILD IS NOT SOME CHARITY AND I CAN ALMOST BET IF HE ASKING FOR SEX HE HAS NO INTENTION OF BEING AROUND TO TAKE REPSONSIBILITY FOR ANYTHING BECAUSE A RESPONSIBLE MAN OR BOY WOULD BE TELLING U TO WAIT
GET SOME KIND OF COMMITMENT
U ARE TAKING A RISK WITH YOUR LIFE AND ITS JUST BEGUN

BE SMART
SEX AINT NOTHING IN ESPECIALLLY WHEN IT PRE MARITAL
ITS NOT THE SMARTEST NOR SAFEST THING TO

DONT LET THAT BOY TAKE SOMETHING SO SPECIAL FROM U
BECAUSE IT MEANS NOTHING TO HIM

HOLD ON TO IT
AND JUST THINK WHEN U LAY DOWN U CAN INFECTED WITH HIV AND U WONT FIND OUT UNTIL A YEAR LATER BY THEN U'LL BE DYING U ARE TO YOUNG AND TO SPECIAL
SOMETIMES HIV CAN SET IN SOMEONE SYSTEMS IN IT HAVEN O AFFECT ON THEM YES ITS TRUE I HAVE BEEN STUDYING THIS FOR 6 YEARS BUT WHEN THEY RELEASE SPERM INTO SOMEONE ELSE OR BLOOD IT STARTS THAT MOMENT TO DECAY THEM

LOOK
MY POINT IS THERE IS SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE WHO HAVE BABYSET WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER
BUT ARE STILL NOT OR DID NOT ANTICIPATE THE HE11 BEING A PARENT PROMOTES.

YOUR VIRGINITY IS SOMETHING YOUR HUSBAND DESERVE DONT GIVE IT TO SOME LOSER
WHO'LL TAKE AND LEAVE AFTER
BECAUSE THATS WHAT HE'LL DO 96% OF THE BOYS THAT GET THE BOOTY EARLY LEAVE ITS FACT
4 % STAY BUT LEAVE WHEN THE PREGNANCY COMES UP
EVEN HUSBANDS ARE DOING IT NOW

WAIT
WAIT
WAIT
WAIT
WAIT
WAIT
WAIT

DONT DO IT
HOLD ON TO IT
AND PREMARITAL SEX IS NOT THE WAY TO GO ANYWAY
U ARE 15 CHILD
U ARE 15 CHILD
U ARE 15 CHILD
U ARE 15 CHILD
U ARE 15 CHILD

SO PLEASE WAIT WAIT FOR THE COMMITMENT WAIT BECAUSE U NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT YOURSELF NOW
BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE WILL WHEN U FALL VICTIM TO STUPIDITY UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF A$$ HOLES

GOOD LUCK AND CONTACT ME IF U NEED ANYMORE ADVICE
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Answer 7

no you don't you think you do and it is not the same when you have your own baby from someone else baby you are young i use to think like that at that age but i am 25 now with no kids and i go state to state with a good job and a big house and the guy that i was in love with then is no where to be found so save your self until you get older and find some one that love you just as much as you love your self OK honey....

Answer 8

no u shouldn't u should be focused on school for one and trying to figure out future career at this age.Why do u want a child anyways at this age your life will not be an easier it will actually be harder.YOU cant just hang out with your friends when u want because u will need to be home taken care of the child.I would not have intercourse with anyone til ur married at least then u know the man really cares about u and just not using u for ur young body.HOW long have u dated this guy?It can also be considered rape in your state because hes 18 too so no don't do it.email me if needed i can help more.

Answer 9

No honey! You are waaaaay too young to be thinking about these things. Enjoy your childhood because once you have a child, you won't be able to get your childhood back. Why are you so in a hurry to grow up? You have so much to experience in life (seriously). Having a child is not easy and I hope your 18 year old boyfriend isn't pressuring you into having sex. If he's not willing to wait, then he's not worth your time. Your body is so precious -- keep it that way.

Answer 10

Please please don't!!! You have no idea what you are getting into. Go to a childcare center and ask if you can observe in their infant room. Babies are not just cute little toys. They can be very very stressful. Wait until you have had a chance to grow up yourself. My mom was 15 when she had me, she did the best she could, but I think she still thinks she didn't do a good job, even though I am married with kids and a job and all.
PLEASE don't have a baby until you are at MINIMUM out of high school and married.
PLEASE!!!!!