i am totally falling for this boy but he is6 years older than me im 14 and he is 19 we have been talking for about 2 years and he hasnt ask me for sex he just talk to me about it occationally...he siad he likes me because im machor and pretty...but his age man...he goes to my school...i know im young but i still seem to like the relationship thing so i kno you are going to start saying stuff about that...but tell me what do you think i should do about it
2006-10-20 11:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by uniquefabulasgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Age matters because it speaks to how much your personalities have in common. You're 14 now . . . so think back to three years ago, when you were 11. Think about how much your way of thinking has change since then! Think about how different the world seems to you now at 14 than it did at 11. And then, just think about how much change will happen to you by the time you're 16 . . . and then six years from now when you're 19.
I mean, I'm 28. When I look back at myself when I was 22, I think, "Whoa! What a different person I was!" So much has changed since I was 19, and since I was 14. And it'll be that way with you, too. It's already that way with your beau.
There simply will not be that much in common between the two of you. Then again, maybe he's immature for a 19 year old? Maybe he has the brain of a 14 year old? I dunno. At any rate, a relationship would be unethical, and sex would be illegal. My advice, stay away, and please take the time to learn about love and relationships with people closer to your own age, who have had experiences similar to yours.
2006-10-20 12:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go meet younger boys your own age your too young for a serious relationship with a 19 year old maybe in 6 years when your 19 if your still interested you could puesue it
2006-10-20 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're jail bait because of your age, and you CAN'T even spell ! What makes you think that any guy would want you ? Guys like intelligent females when it comes right down to it. At your age, the guy could go to jail just for messing with you and you could too ! Do you want that ?
2006-10-20 12:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have always believed that age is just a number,, but 14 is alittle young, for a 19 year old,,, you have plently of life ahead of you enjoy it.
2006-10-20 12:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it matters in your case, cuz it's illegal. but once you get older it won't be such a big deal. right now, i advise you to not get involved with this guy cuz he's probably gonna take advantage of you. i'm sorry, but it's true. think about it like this, why isn't he with someone his own age? trust me, it's not a good idea, but when you're older and if you're into older men, go for it. just not now. i date older men (my boyfriend is 13 years older than me) so i speak from experience.
2006-10-20 12:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~it's me~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i now how cares your age
2006-10-20 12:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by meontae 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋