lu mwark.call u tmrow. is he having an affair. sadly he deny
2006-10-20 11:54:55 · 31 answers · asked by Ah Ngeok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
message her to meet somewhere at a certain time, some place with not a lot of people around. make sure you delete any evidence of this message off of his phone. then confront her. i wouldnt ask him, because then he will deny it and then just be more sneaky. you dont want him to know you suspect anything, make him feel relaxed and safe. find a reason to leave and say you will be gone for a certain amount of time, then come back early. if you have a trustworthy friend, have them follow him around, or you could do it, just borrow someone's car or something. be sneaky, dont let him know you know until you catch him red handed. then he cant deny it.
2006-10-20 14:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wish I could ease your doubts but from what you said it's unclear if he is DEFINETLY having an affair. I tell you what though...you are definetly within reason to question this text message and his intentions in sending it. Of course if he is doing something he'd be likely to deny it but the only real thing you can do is pay close attention to his actions. See if his routine is changing. Check his or your cell phone bills/records and see if he's begun sending more text messages than usual. (On a phone bill record it will be stated as SMS messages.) Don't jump to conclusions and start thinking up possible senarios. (Trust me, i've done that and almost drove myself crazy! LOL) Just keep an eye out for unusual behavior. And don't beat yourself up about feeling devious or not fully trusting your husband! You have a right to know about anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and if your husband has nothing to hide then he should be forth coming with information. Good luck with everything.
2006-10-20 12:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That hurts! You won't get anywhere with tears and 100 questions, trust me. You know him better then he knows himself, you know what is wrong and right don't rack your mind wondering, tell him that you want an answer and be truthful, hopefully he will be truthful and you will know if he is lying. Stay away for a few days and see how often he is trying to get in touch with you, truth always comes out
2006-10-20 12:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by momma whitley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask that question, then you already know the answer. You need to drill his behind, ask him what does it mean, and who is this girl you are sms? Then you need some soul searching to do. Don't let this man play you as no fool, find your fighting spirit and go for it girl.
2006-10-20 12:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! because sms message is a kind of proof and valid in the court of law.
2006-10-20 12:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find out some facts first. You are going to either have to sneak around or I would just be up front and ask him what is up? This is your life and you only live it once, if you cant trust him then I would be gone.
2006-10-20 13:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....the lu means "love you" and I guess he plans on calling her tomorrow. If you are serious, check his recent call list, his recieved and dialed calls. But for goodness sake don't make it a habit of prying through his business when you don't have a reason.
2006-10-20 12:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Amber L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like he is cheating. Pretend you are him and message to her that she should call because you are not home. Then flat out ask her when she does. Better yet....message as him that you want to meet somewhere and confront her.
2006-10-20 12:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is wait till i had enough evidence... write down what was written somewhere, with the time and date, act normaly and just get on checking, next time u have another message write it again... then when your sure, take the number and call her, tell her about the messages and tell her your husband told u the truth... she will probably admit it, and then u bust his a$$.......
2006-10-20 12:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think he is having an affair. you need to know what she said to him first. maybe she said:
"where are you now, i think i may face problem with my car"
"are you still at work ? . i am going to my sister wedding tonight"
don't assume things very fast, your husband loves you and want you, otherwise he will dump you long time ago.
2006-10-20 13:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋