My husband's friend introduced us to his new live-in girlfriend and we both became good friends. She confided in me and told me that she is seeing her boss. She brags about the attention and gifts she gets from her boss like she wants me to be jeolous that she can juggle two men. It's gone on for a couple of months and my husband over heard her talking about him. Should I tell my husband whats going on? Should HE tell his friend?
2006-10-20 11:43:14 · 15 answers · asked by kittypunx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
send him a note in the mail and let him know what is going on. do not sign it. yes you should tell your husband . this could cause trouble between you and your husband. if you keep it from your husband and he does find out, he might not trust you. be honest with him. it is his friend. you owe it to him not to the girlfriend.
2006-10-20 12:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think first you should tell this live in girlfriend that you don't like what she is doing to your friend, and that she needs to tell him, or you and your husband will. but you may need some type of proof that this is going on before you confront her. i know this sounds sneaky but the next time you are with her have a small recorder and get it on tape, because there is no doubt if you tell on her she is going to deny the whole thing and say that you and your husband are just trying to break them up. if you are not prepared to do this then stay out of it.
2006-10-20 11:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No and No.........first of all, there is nothing to be jealous of a cheater......... It does not benefit you in any way to tell on her. You gain nothing, your husband might be angry with you because you did not tell him earlier. It is a problem but not yours, don't get involved. Stay true and honest to your husband, concentrate on your relationship, hers will not last too long. If you are uncomfortable around them, don't hang out with them that often.
2006-10-20 11:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would be the right thing to do. You're not only helping yourself but helping your husbands friend so he can get out of that relationship. But its ALL up to you. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is the path you'll take.
2006-10-20 11:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-thing is ones business lest one makes it so. If what s/he is being does not meet your requirements of being 'a good person' then simply don't do it. Than again if you want to get involved especially with your judgement then by all means have fun making others wrong
2006-10-20 11:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by david_krest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you should stay clear of this, but you may want to tell the cheater that you prefer not to hear about her other man because her roommate is your husband's friend.
2006-10-20 11:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely see wrong is wrong no matter what or who it is. Tell your husband and tell your husbands friend.
2006-10-20 11:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as weird as it sounds, YOU don't tell him. i mean if you tell him then he could think that you are jealous of her and that you want him for you. if he is your husbands friend it is best that he tell him. but,..... what makes you think that he doesn't really know deep down inside of him that his girl is cheating? plus it is really a sensitive subject, so what ever you decide just proceed with caution!!
2006-10-20 11:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wat ur gut tells u, tel ur husbands friend to pay better attention, but dont tell him more than that, but she's ur friend, so u cud be honest to her by telling her that shes doing a very dumb thing, and that she shudnt be doing it, and say that cheating is not right!! Ever!!!! but dnt tell ur man or his buddy, cuz that'll just give u and her problems, its between u and her only!!
2006-10-20 12:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by lori M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you should tell your husband.You don't wanna keep that from him.Then you should tell his friend before this gets out of control.
2006-10-20 11:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by debralizjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋