im young ....... i am a teen im not going to say how old i am but i think i might be pregnant im always hungry my stomich got hard at the bottom sometimes it softens up but mostly not my tts hurt .... i dont know if im pregnant and if i am money wond be a problem because i have that part figured out the question is what should i do have an abortion because i dont want to be responsible for a baby when i want to do more outa my life or keep it and change plans i made like not go to partys and take more responsibily .... i would never concider adoption sooo dont mention it ..
p.s i dont want to hear im going to pray for u or u need g-d thats not why i aske this question an d i dont want to hear you cant spell becasue i could spell and i dont have time to spell words out if i wanted to have a perfect spelling i would have used the spelling check ...i just want a answer to my question soo if you think you got 1 please help me out otherwise dont waist your time
thanx ...
2006-10-20 11:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Go to planned parethood. Get a test to see if you are pregnent. If you are, get an abortin of you do not want the kid.
2006-10-20 11:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Wannabaprep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you would never consider abortion. Obviously there is only one choice, what a stupid question. If you want an abortion whatever, I may not agree with it but it is your life. People need to take responsibility for spreading their legs and stop being selfish. There are consequences to sex you know and your not invincible. Old enough to have sex old enough to take care of a baby. But if you HAVE to get an abortion at least get it done professionally and not in some back alley. I'm 15 and even i know that you should learn from your mistakes and not take the easy way out.
2006-10-20 18:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wonder why you are willing to terminate the pregnancy but not give the baby to a loving family. I'm not here to judge you but I am telling you that it is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life. Also depending on what state you live in you may want to check with the laws. You may be required to tell your parents and have their approval. Another thing to consider is that people don't regret having children, yes maybe they wish they were older, or had a better job, but they never wish for that child to be out of their lives but people do regret abortions everyday. You are old enough to put yourself in a position to get pregnant and without sounding rude, that means you are old enough to accept responsibility. You said a lot of stuff about you and what you want to do in life, but now its no longer about you. So my vote is to step up and take of this child. And one more thing again without upsetting you, there is a father out there who should have a say in this whole process not just perfect strangers on yahoo questions.
2006-10-20 18:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tamra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ARE being rational, you are NOT being true. You are asking STRANGERS to tell you what to do with the life inside your stomach. If u r asking what I would do, I would never forgive myself for killing my first baby PERIOD. BUT that doesn't necessarily mean the same to you. You are you, you are that baby's mother, only you know if you are capable (emotionally, physically, financially) of raising him/her so he/she doesn't grow up resenting you. I'd trust your instincts, & seriously, get down on your knees & pray for a sign, or advice or direction, He will guide u.
But just so you know, the handful of girls I know that have gotten abortions or miscarriages have regretted everyday of their life. They would say things like " Oh today she might have been 2 years old", things like that. I mean as a friend what was I supposed to say, life is precious. But I am reasonable enough to see that God gave doctors the ability to do abortions for a reason. faith sister, faith. God bless.
1 more thing, NOBODY NO MATTER WHAT AGE IS REALLY READY FOR A BABY> no matter what they claim. They are a blessing, the best gift I ever got in my life was my son, but he is very much also a burden. But it gives me insight to how God sees us, a blessing and a burden, BUT completely worth it:o] good luck & God bless darling, you can do it if you want, it's your path, you just have to walk it, either way.
2006-10-20 18:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can not do adoption then just take care of it. It will not be the end of the world trust me on this i finished up highschool and i am no going to college i was scared to tell my mom but i told her any way she has been a great help to me she has helped me take care of the baby and she has helped me to finish up school and she help me to go to college. Just tell your mom that you made a mistake but you do not want to have an abortion please do not have one you will regret it. I know so many people who had one and they regret it.
You can still do things with your life even after you have a child i did and you can too.
I do not know if you are pregnant all i can say about that is go to your doctors and get tested or by one at the store and see if you are.
i really hope you do not choose abortion. abortion should not be done bc they are cruel when they do it. Plus think about this what if you mom did that to you.
i hope this helps you.
2006-10-20 18:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go get a pregnancy test and stop all these assumptions. Usually clinics give them to teens for free or you can pick one up at ya local pharmacy for cheap (under 10 dollars).
If you don;t want the responsibility of a baby, be more responsible and keep your legs close or at least make him wear a condomn for your own protection. You could be worrying about HIV than a baby.
2006-10-20 18:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Yella Bunnyâ?¢ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well... you shouldn't abort... and if u dont wanna adopt then u only have one option...have the kid. if u didnt want responsibility u shouldnt have had unsafe sex. so...u gotta have the kid but first... turn urself into mother material... i read a couple of ur other questions and i swear i think u could b related to the mansons, ther is sumthin wrong with ur head. maybe this baby will inspire u to act a little more mature. God bless you and your baby.
2006-10-20 23:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have already made your decision.
I won't say I'll pray for you or tell you what you already know but I will say God Bless you and give you the peace and strength to do his will.
2006-10-20 19:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by hazydaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta see your doctor, might not be pregnant , could be something else. Also, speak to your mum / friend / relative, get some support. Good luck, whatever the outcome x
2006-10-20 18:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by denise k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live the life like other women
2006-10-20 18:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋