this is my first time taking a girl to a formal party... I'm looking for serious answers only please! any advice on what to do or not to do , and maybe next time get in her pants..? lol
thanks
I posted this question in another section, but no good answers showed... please some good suggestions? winner gets 10 pts..
2006-10-20 11:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by greg 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Try and act like you have some manners and be a gentleman - get the door for her, help her with her coat, pull the chair out for her, guide her to the dance floor, etc. Make sure that your table manners are excellent and that you put the napkin in your lap before you eat. A formal night is special for a lot of women - they want to be treated specially. They have spent hours getting dressed and made up and they want to be treated like they are beautiful and special.
2006-10-20 11:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hate that your trying to get into her pants, but if she WILLINGLY gives it up, then more power to ya! Open doors, car, building, get the chair for her, etc. Bring her roses, not just any ole flowers. Maybe white roses... they are not as cliche as red. Pay for everything... That's how it should be if you are taking her out! Dress to the nines! Go somewhere they sell fashionable men's clothes and get ideas for what to wear. Get good shoes... I love a guy with great shoes... a suit is a suit, shoe type shows your own personal taste. Put you hand on the small of her back when you walk or are talking to others. It makes us women feel secure without feeling smothered. And it's a huge turn on! (at least for me) DON'T KISS HER! Whatever you do... She'll be wondering why all night and want it even more... Let her kiss you and then don't let it go too far. She'll definatly me wanting more! I promise!
2006-10-20 18:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with flowers.
Be on time.
Meet the Parents.
Have a clean vehicle.
Look your best.
Good hygiene.
Pick your conversation topics carefully--don't be boring!
Don't be an entertainer, she wants to talk also.
Be a listener.
Don't expect sex, be patient women like it.
Lose the rough guy language.
Find a top notch restaurant.
Be a gentleman and hold doors open and pull chairs out.
Don't smoke or over consume alcoholic drinks.
Dance when possible.
Drive cautiously.
Get her home at a reasonably hour.
2006-10-20 18:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers, compliment her on the way she looks, make sure to open doors and pull out her chair before she sits down to eat. Order her a drink or two to relax her. Dance with her to a slow song. Make sure to ask her if she is having a good time. Take her back home and ask if she would like to come up for a night cap and then spend the night talking and maybe more who knows. Good luck !!!
2006-10-20 18:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if you just met the girl or were you friends before then finally hook up for a date. It also depends if she's an old fashion girl. If she is, first you ask her where to meet her. Ofcoarse, you have to dress your best, formally. Don't wear bright neon colors...lol. You have to dress to impress. Where good cologne, not one that'll give anyone headaches. Example, Santos de Cartier...well that's for older aged men. For young men, I guess would be Polo/ Passion for Men/Blue Jeans for Men...I think you have no problem picking out a good cologne. Make sure you don't bathe yourself in cologne, like how my boy-friend does...lol. Just put a few dabs on your wrists, neck, behind ears. Open doors for her without it hitting her...Lol. Pull out chairs, make sure when she sits on it, she won't fall to the floor. Lol. Ask her if she drinks. If she does, offer one to her and bring it to her. If she doesn't, don't bother bringing her one. Ask if she would like to dance to something you know what to dance to. When you talk to her, really listen to what she says to you. Women enjoy good listeners. Find out what you have in common by just talking. Make sure you play it smooth without using any curse words. Just go with the flow. Try not to be so nervous and start stuttering. Although some girls find that cute. If you follow what I've said, she might want to have a second date with you. Who knows, maybe she'll like you to call her and end up talking for hours on the phone. Communication is a good things. Good luck, Mr. Don Juan De Marco...Lol. Go and sweep her off her feet. Good luck.
2006-10-20 18:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am totally serious and a lot of people on here are stupid. Don't leave her unless you are getting something for her.If you want to kiss her ask first.If she says no then say"OK i will wait because you are so beautiful and i don't want to rush you." When you first see her tell her she looks beautiful.Then on your way to where ever say" You know, you really look gorgeous,I am glad I am with you" Don't say beautiful alot and don't say alot of comments about the way she looks or she will think you are trying to get in her pants.
2006-10-20 18:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Confidence, confidence, confidence- you’re not going to get a second date acting like a wuss.
2. Eye Contact- Nothing’s worse than not being able to make eye contact. It sends the message that you’re shy and, oh where have I said this before, lacking CONFIDENCE. It’s not a staring contest though, don’t bore a hole through her eyes but whenever you’re talking to her you better be looking her straight in the eye.
3. Appearance- Girls don’t like slobs. In fact, no one likes slobs. Talking to girls, make sure you don’t look like one. There’s not much else to say. dont look like you just came back from war
4. Be yourself- Everyone hates a poser and that goes double for girls. There’s nothing worse than her catching you acting one way around her, and acting totally different with your friends.
5. Smell- Use cologne, axe, tag, deodorant because she won’t even get near you If you smell like the locker room. dont put too much! you dont wanna choke her to death
6. Smile- Smiling shows that you like her. If you’re totally nervous and don’t smile when you talk it’s a total turn off. She thinks that she’s boring you. Plus, you’d better have nice teeth. Girls love a nice, white smile.
7. Always in Moderation- J. If you over do confidence, she will think you’re stuck up. If pay too much attention to your appearance than you’re vain etc. etc.
2006-10-20 21:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open her door. Hold her hand when she is walking up steps. Kiss her on the cheek.
Don't act like all you want to do is get in her pants!
2006-10-20 19:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Traditional Gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel special like its all about her.Flowers and shyt really help.Dont act like you wanna get laid or u wont try and show her u wan to just go on the date.then next tine u might get sum lol
2006-10-20 18:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a gentleman to her and maybe buy her a bouquet of flowers...don't listen to the first guy and try stuff because that's just rude and she'll take offense, be sure to dress nice good luck!
2006-10-20 18:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by true_love_4ever92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋