My husband and I are friends with this couple. I am very good friends with the girl and my husband is very good friends with the man. We all found out that she was cheating on her husband. I think it's horrible because she was telling me that she was going to leave him and sue him for alimony (they've only been married 5 months and she's had two prior divorces because of her adultress ways), and she has two kids with two other guys. Anyway, my question is, for opinion's sake, is would you still be friends with the girl? She's very nice and fun to hang out with. But she is very self-destructive and it seems to me now that she is just a gold-digger. What are your alls thoughts on this subject?
2006-10-20 11:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Summer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you just answered your own questions w/ the "self destructive" & "gold digger". honey, trust your gut instincts because they're always right. you don't need anyone to bring you down and what will it look like if you start being friends w/ a cheater. that's saying it's okay even though she's "nice". sorry, you need to dump her!!
2006-10-20 11:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not with this woman, she is telling you all sorts of private things and what are you supposed to do with this information. Clearly she is in this marriage for the money, but unless you have it in writing I think you may be accused of passing along gossip, explain to your husband why you do not want or need to hang out with her and maybe you guys will look for new friends
2006-10-20 18:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seen with her and ppl know what she has done then ppl will start thinking that you are like that. And what about your husband does he think that you should still be friends with her after what she has done to his best friend ? i highly doubt it . I think your husband will have quite a few words for you when he finds out. the answer is no stay away from her . I 'm sure if you dont ppl will be asking you how can you be friends with her? After what she has done.
2006-10-20 18:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you would still want to hang out with a fun person. But you would be taking a risk hanging out with someone you can't trust. She may do something to you.
2006-10-20 18:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Snow White's Mother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a very horrible woman and i think that you should tell the husband her plans so that he can prevent them
2006-10-20 18:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by N T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I am more selective of the people I associate....regardless of how much fun they are to hang out with............
2006-10-20 18:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her she has too many issues in her life
2006-10-20 18:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING, "YOU'RE JUDGED BY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP".
2006-10-20 18:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell naw
2006-10-20 18:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋