My best friend is leaving and when he leaves I'll be left all alone with nobody else to talk to! What to do? How do I deal with the situtation? I mean crying doesn't really help so far...
;(
2006-10-20 11:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's not allowed to get any kind of messengers ex (aim, MSN) but he got his yahoo email
2006-10-20 11:15:37 · update #1
I'm experiencing the same exact thing and I'm all melancholy too but there's absolutely nothing I can do about mine or yours.
I guess the only real comfort is that there's always time. If you take things slowly, not worrying too much , you could easily cope with the fact that your friend will be gone. Also, just remember that they're still there somewhere in the world [it's not as if they've died so try to be happy for that point].
I really only have one good friend and she's going to leave because her family is ready to leave. I tried to convince her to stay, to run away, anything but she doesn't want to upset her parents, so there's no room for me. But I can remember all the good times we've had and try to move on from there. Life isn't fair but we must try to make something out of it because there is only one life.
So now I'm just alone and so very lonely but I'm also trying to look for other friends that could last me another few years or for the rest of my life. There are so many people that are like me, like you, it's just that I guess we're both too stuck in our deepest situations that we can't just look up from. But I say that the best way to deal is to wait.
You can keep in contact in whatever way suits you but it will be hard when there's no real physical contact [it just lacks the emotion]. But I have this distant friend that I write [2] letters to every single week. He writes back too and it's the sweetest thing. We only get to see each other on occasions but right now, it's enough to keep me happy because I know he's still so much a friend as I am to him. Letters give much more personality and the sensation that that person may really be there beside you because you would know that they've hand written it, thinking about you the whole time...
Time will heal you and soon you'll be smiling back at the memories you've made instead of crying at how pitiful life was or is.
2006-10-20 11:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by fake_pierce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is normal... I know how you feel... One of my best friends left about a year ago. She left to Australia leaving me here alone... I spent every moment with her... I miss her so much... One thing that i wish I had done diffrently is that i wish I would have spent more time with her... We talk now on e mail and myspace but i wish she was here... I had a fear that i wouldnt make freinds but i did and i have a lot of friends now... Just get out there and meet some people
Best of luck***
2006-10-20 11:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by songbirdchelsea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kate! Its sad that your best friend is moving away.:( Hope that he makes new friends and also you should reach out to people you don't know very well. Start making some new friends, but don't forget your old friends because "one is silver and the others gold" Good Luck!
2006-10-20 11:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by pinkpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always jump in on the questions board and talk to many people. Start a new hobbies, go shopping with gal friends. Join a club, just keep yourself busy!!!! Good Luck to you.
2006-10-20 11:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw him a going away party leave email addresses yahoo messenger names so you guys still can talk and exchange numbers so you guys can keep in contact with each other and have him give his home address too so you can write letters. But please do not make him feel guilty for leaving.
2006-10-20 11:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but you have to learn to face the facts.He's leaving there's nothing you can do about it but just deal with it.Make new friends keep in touch that's the best you can do.
2006-10-20 11:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by daisy9p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You send letters and phone calls. One thing I do with my aunt who lives far away from me is a journal. You write a note in it and send it to him. He gets it and does the same thing back. That way, you don't loose the letters you write to each other : )
But don't forget to always be open to new friends.
2006-10-20 11:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by tatertot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with chatting on line with a messenger and web cam.
2006-10-20 11:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still keep in touch with them but you most likely will get a new best friend so i guess just try to get new freinds and plus you can all ways contact them through myspace
2006-10-20 11:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by torn laces sk8er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch. It is very easy in 2006 with technology.
2006-10-20 11:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋