What do I do when my husband gets home... he will be pist?

Question

I got pen on the computer monitor and my dear husband is going to be pist me. I tried everything and it won't come off. There are even light spots in color on the monitor. What should I do if he starts throwing things or puts me down and starts being very very mean? Help. I seriously am nervous. Oh yes.. I forgot I didn't get pen on the monitor but my toddler did when my back was turned. thanks

I need to add that I don't have a car and he will be home at 10 pm so I can't leave.

Answer 1

Is it LCD?

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The safest way but not sure if it will work is just to rub the pen mark with slightly damp microfibre cloth (widely used with spectacles/glasses). Damp the cloth with a bit of water. Try gently doing this for long periods to see if it will come off.

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What type of screen is it glossy or matte? I would suggest using isopropyl alcohol on the screen using light pressure. Under no circumstances use any solvents including acetone and paint thinnners, this will royally screw up the screen.


Keep the phone handy and call the cops if he touches you. Men shouldn't hit women. If you have to live in fear - you need to leave him. That's no place for a child.

Answer 2

Pen can be removed with nail polish remover but be very careful because it can melt plastic. Also if your husband is that big a jerk to be so upset over some pen on a monitor he needs to go to anger management and you might think he does it or he gets divorced. There is no excuse for violence over such a thing. Maybe annoyed but he could easily get this off with acetone. The main ingredient in Nail polish remover. But be careful because it can cause damage. So use a little on a rag and wipe small areas. I would try Alcohol first because the acetone will destroy plastic and make things worse.
If you are that scared of him you need to end the marriage because he is abusive. I would call a friend to come over just in case if he is abusive then call the police. Don't stay with anyone who abuses you . It is bad for you and your child.

Answer 3

Wow, you're already making an excuse for an ACCIDENT. You need to leave him, honey. Take the monitor with you so when you look at that light spot on the screen, you can be proud of how strong you were the day you left. If you really cared about the pen mark, your post wouldn't be in the divorce section. You know what to do. Just find the strength. You can do it!

Answer 4

Why are you so frightened? This isn't a life altering mistake, he needs to settle down and understand children often make mistakes and being violent is unacceptable. He throws things, whose the child here anyway. I can tell you are seriously nervous. If he gets way out of control, go into another room without reacting. You react, he reacts, your toddler suffers.
Now call around and find out what you can do to remedy this problem so you have a solution when he gets home. That way you defuse him before he goes off.

Answer 5

tina are you serious?
accidents happen, this is what you should do. Call him now and tell him about the accident. As in now. This will give him time to boil up and cool down. Don't tell him it was the toodler who did it, as he will think you are covering it up and you don't want to put your child in the middle of this. DO NOT LIE beyond that and don't talk too much and don't apologise too much, just once. Then ask for help, how this can be corrected and explain to him how bad it is.
I just want to add that it is not normal how you are feeling about how your husband may react. He has no right to touch you and I hope you are aware of your rights.
Good luck.

Answer 6

Alcohol might remove the stain, can't hurt too try it. WHY in the world are you so scared that your husband will be so pissed? Accidents happen all the time, even if it were you that did it and not the baby. Don't let your husband treat you this way !! If he starts throwing things and etc...Have his *** arrested ! That might calm him down and he might think twice before he gets so pissed again over a little accident !!

Answer 7

the marker is the least of your probs. It sounds like your being abused. Not all abuse is physical, emotional and mental abuse is just as bad.Having children, you should expect and except these little things. My advice... get out of the relationship before he gets to the point were he harms you or your child.Try rubbing alcohol and a cotton ball on the marker and think about what I've said..... God bless!

Answer 8

Magic Eraser...takes pen off anything just about. Keep one in the house at all times!

and tell him to relax... if hes abusive get out

Answer 9

if you are seriously that scared of something as small as that, and think he might hurt you.. there is a really problem.. tell someone and get real answers from a professional, not just random people on the Internet. I'm concerned that you'd be so afraid.

Answer 10

I seriously hope that you're joking.
Whatever the case, you're husband doesn't have the right to physically abuse you, and you need to stand up for yourself. Remind him of that fact if necessary and call the police if he assaults you.
In life sometimes "**** happens" and you shouldn't be living in fear of a beating. Your husband needs anger management courses to get control of himself.