Just wondering what is going on in your head when you are having sex. Are you thinking of your partner? Thinking of someone of the same gender as you? Thinking of a famous person? Thinking of all the chores that need to be done and what bills need to be paid? etc. Do you sometimes find it just easier to 'give yourself a hand', get it done and overwith so you can get on with things in life?
2006-10-20 10:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I was married to my first husband I made out the grocery list. I knew he wasn't going to be doing anything that needed my participation anyway. When he was finished I helped myself out.
Now that I am with my true soul mate things have changed. I am thinking about him and what we are doing to please each other. The sex is fantastic because we love each other so much and care about making sure the other enjoys everything, too.
2006-10-20 10:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think about what is going on at the time. Me having sex. How it feels etc...I have never thought of an actor or famous person. sex is a huge part of my life and if I were to ever start thinking of it as a chore I would have to look at my relationship with my partner because something would seriously be wrong.
2006-10-20 10:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking about having babies. When I finally reach point of ectasy and relax for 30 seconds I think put a hold on the babies for at least 10 years. What was I thinking. But it is a turn on. I am sure men are thinking they are with a farm animal, at least it seems with there wacky exotic behaviours. Minutemen (probably like you) on the other "hand" should just masturbate and get that one minute out of the way and get on with things in life!!!
2006-10-20 11:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What color to paint the ceiling! The ceiling fan looks dusty! The washing machine top needs to be cleaned!
2006-10-20 10:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he's good I'll actually get an image of what it looks like. if he's bad/so-so, I'll be thinking about things I need to do or if Jessica Simpson is really that dumb, stuff like that.
2006-10-20 10:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by lilbig_t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not thinking about anything except how delicious it feels. If there's anything else on your mind, IMHO, your partner's just ain't doin' it right. ; )
2006-10-20 10:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by inquiringmind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on my mood, and how much effort we're both putting into it. When I make love, I try to concentrate specifically on him and his reponses. I like it when I make him lose control. :)
2006-10-20 10:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking when I'm done with the gerbil, will it find it's way out or will have to go find the turbo-vac... maybe it'll come out in his feces later on.... hmmmm....
2006-10-20 11:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by bumblebeemeggie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think . I am too busy just enjoying the feelings
2006-10-20 10:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bella Donna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i am having sex,my man is so bad im half-asleep.Sometimes I read a f'in book cause its so tine, i cant feel a thing
2006-10-20 10:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by yo mama 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋