M2F Crossdresser, Looking for lady friends to help with dressing?

Question

I would like to find a lady who will help me in selecting the proper clothes to wear. It's hard to find items that fit well and would appreciate any help any ladies could give me. Thanks Barbara

Answer 1

Well, there are some basic tips you can remember whenever you look for something. Remember, the trick to the illusion is to play down all masculine tells and really play up feminine tells, so don't skip any part. You have to shave, do your makeup (you don't have to over-do it, but you have to have definite makeup and a good foundation to cover any shadow). For clothes, avoid slacks and go for it all the way with skirts or dresses--oh AND pantyhose. Avoid square neck blouses, cause they'll make your shoulders appear wider, and avoid cap or 3/4 length sleeves, cause they'll make your arms look longer. If you can find something that is long and not too tight in the sleeves, that would be best. And hair is important. If your own hair has to stay masculine, then invest in a wig or two, preferably close to your own color. (It's hard to hide dark hair under a blond wig.) Good luck and have fun, I'm sure that Barbara is a beautiful woman. :)

Answer 2

surprisingly, lower end stores like ross and payless have nice womens shoes in large sizes (as well as online where you can find anything).
waterbras are perfect to help shirts fit better. if you go to victorias secret, they will mesure you for a better, more natural looking fit.
nowadays, men's jeans are a lot more feminine (and may be more comfortable for your package) at places like express.
claires is great for cheap and pretty jewelry, so even if you only have a few outfits that fit well, you can always dress them up or down with fun stuff.
also, since buying stuff may never be very easy, learn to sew! simple alterations are easy with a cheap little sewing machine. they come with clear directions, and googling it will give you all you need to know to take stuff in or let it out.
my email is available on here, feel free to write (as a bit of a femme, i shop with boys for this stuff a lot!)

Answer 3

i might pass with a elementary black dress- no longer in basic terms is it slimming, and classy as could be, yet you do no longer might desire to situation approximately staining it the two! you could then accesorize like loopy, to characteristic colour. in case you pass w/ a black dress, needless to say get some black heels, yet are not getting loopy extreme heels. Get something that has somewhat a heel, yet additionally make constructive they are not going to kill your ft via the tip of the night. walk around in them lots the day earlier the occasion- pay interest to work out in the event that they sense even somewhat tight on ANY portion of your foot. As for stockings, get a "nude" colour- you do no longer choose it to be way obvious you're wearing pantyhose, yet they'll make it extra gentle. have exciting!

Answer 4

Tailor, tailor, tailor!

It is hard to purchase clothes that will hang well and flatter your body,. I would suggest going to goodwill stores etc. They offer items att low prices so you can purchase a variety of styles/sizes and can see what best suits you.

Its wonderful that you are comfortable with who you are and anybody that says different you shouldn't listen to! I admire your courage and openness! It truly is wonderful.

Have a great day!