the house is up for sale,and she is currently seeing someone else,but still refuses to move out. This situation isnt very pleasant as you can imagine. Shes determined to stay in the house until it is sold. Anyone else been in this situation?
2006-10-20 10:18:00 · 23 answers · asked by johny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hide some smelly fish all over the house
2006-10-21 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why we don't buy houses unless we're married. See the logic?
No, but I know a few ppl that have been there and it's never pleasant.
Btw - Getting a Lawyer will NOT do you any good (unless you're fighting with her over profits from the sale of the house, debt, or ownership of household furniture/vehicles). The house is half hers. There's nothing you can do about it other than move out. Now that you're not in a relationship she has every right to see other people - there literally is NOTHING that you can do about this.
2006-10-20 17:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she be the one to move out? You both own the house. She has just as much right to it as you do. This will be a nasty situation. You need to find a lawyer to help you understand what rights you have.
Here is one reason that living together instead of marriage can cause more problems than expected.
2006-10-20 17:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes & no. Have done tax returns for 36 years though. If you both have your names on the title then it can't be sold unless both of you sign at closing. No money, no signature, no sale; so it should be no problem. Perhaps if you offer to pay her rent for whereever she moves; with the agreement that the total amount of rent you pay will be deducted from her half of the sale of the house at the time of sale; she will consider moving out. It usually boils down to the money.
2006-10-20 17:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A game player needs to be played. Firstly by accident of course catch her full in the face with your elbow, seems to have the effect of clearing the mind, then learn her movements, either get a friend to run her over or by accident again have her pushed into oncoming traffic. Allow the house insurance to run out and insure it in your own name, allow three months of so to go by and loosen electrical wires close to curtains or other inflamable fabrics, wiggle the wires around until you cause sparks to fly, allow bad luck to happen or assist it in various ways, leaving papers close to the ignition point. Once the home has burnt down, shock horror, name calling. Oh you idiot the house insurance has run out we have lost everything. Then some time later after she has swanned off with Mr Gosh honey what dreadful luck .... like a buried memory you amazingly remember .......... damn I did have house insurance after all. You get the lot, you win a younger version, this time with a heart who's only wish is to serve you and insure your happiness. And you both live happily ever after. While she heavily on drugs for depression walks across the street while the lights are green and redecorates the road. The End.
2006-10-20 17:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all dont do anything around the house, let it fall apart!
No dishes,diy,making bed,be generally untidy,do not fix anything that breaks: pictures absolutely nothing and slam doors everytime you are in the house.
Believe me she will tire of it all in a week or two and wish she was somewhere else.
If she is not contributing towards the bills tell her you will prosecute her for what she owes and sound like you mean it also see a solicitor to get your rights confirmed.
It worked for me so good luck!!!!
2006-10-20 17:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it did happen to me .I was seeing someone else and I stayed as long as possible untill it was impossible but if I had stayed I would have gotten a lot more money.I cant blame her for standing her ground but you both have to try and sell even if at a lower price.Its both your futures at stake.I sometimes wish I has stayed and put up with the hassle for my future.You cant change whats happened so make the best of it.I will put a bet on if you chat she enjoys those moments.Maybe you can sort out who is is in and who is out while its up for sale.
2006-10-20 17:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, if you both own the house, then you both have the right to live there until it's sold. If it's so unpleasant for you, is it an option that you move out? Not a good situation for anyone. good luck to you.
2006-10-20 17:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing legally you can do if you have a joint mortgage ..........
If there are kids involved than you can?!?!?
If you raise the children she has to leave because it is not a healthy atmosphere for the children, but it is a court that will sort that out...........Also you have a right to your privacy, she can enter the house whenever she wants providing its under prior arrangement, until the house is legally sorted out
If there are kids you can stay in the house until they are 18 and she will have her share of the property then
2006-10-20 18:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it isn't pleasant for you, maybe you should move until the house is sold. She has the same right as you, as far as being there. You two are married right?
2006-10-20 17:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋