i feel bad because i keep letting my parents down which in turn makes them fight and i hate seeing them sad because tyhey do nothing to deserve that and i dont know what to do about it. I also keep making bad decisions and i dont know why. it kills me because i have a goiod life im in hockey and i have wonderful parents who all do is love me and i keep letting them down.. HOWE DO I STOP?
2006-10-20 10:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Troy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Talk to your parents, and whole heartedly try to make changes. Pin point what your doing wrong and stop doing the bad things. You parents will always be there for you if you let them and they deserve the respect in return for their hard efforts of raising you and providing you for what you needed. Now its your turn to do some changes and quit doing hurtful things in their eyes.
2006-10-20 10:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something only you can answer for yourself. I know how you're feeling 'cuz I was the same way. Still seems like I let them down.
You will never make them 100% happy, but you can do your best. Maybe make it a point to not do things to disapoint them.
As far as them fighting becuase of the things you do.....
deep down, thats not the reason why they are fighting, though it may seem like it. Parents get frustrated and they'll let you know they are upset, but they don't fight with eachother becuase of it.
You're being a kid and thats pretty much it. Just keep your head up and good luck and just continue doing your best. And remember to do things for yourself, not only your parents.
2006-10-20 17:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kyanadri82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your parents, not you. I love my parents, but they are morons. Now that I am a parent myself, I know just how big of morons they were.
You need to be more specific though... HOW are YOU messing up? Are you into drugs? Getting bad grades? Getting arrested? Got someone pregnant? Fighting? Lighting kittens on fire? What are you doing that's so wrong? Only if you identify what your problem is can you fix it. Until then, any advice you see here is a shot in the dark, and shouldn't be taken.
2006-10-22 21:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's okay to mess up you just have to learn from them. I mean I use to do stupid things too and it really hurt my mom. What I did was move to California and now I am getting a 4.3 GPA. I think what you need are some changes, either it's friends, work habits, or using your time wisely. Just remember that your parents are there to help you and so are counselors. Whatever you need and whenever you need the advice, these people are here for you, you just have to ask. Don't give up hope and good luck...
2006-10-21 00:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Smartsrule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!First of all I don't think you are a bad kid! The thing is maybe you should stop thinking of yourself as a bad kid and start looking at the future and fixing your problems. First,I would start by trying to fix my grades(if that's the case what they are fighting over)
2006-10-20 19:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by SunniGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do will change their minds. They think for themselves - and you can never do someone else's thinking for them. Tell them that you don't like disapointing them and that it is affecting how you feel about yourself. But, don't tell them during a fight - tell them this at a quiet time when everyone is calm and more willing to listen.
2006-10-20 17:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to chruch and see what happens and talk to councler there. good luck
2006-10-20 17:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋