O.K I’m in 10th grade and there's this senior and his friends told me that he’s gay and that I should talk to him and stuff. Every time I see him and his friends together they look at me. I have no idea why. At first I was afraid because I thought that he’s gonna do something to me if I’m gonna ask him if he’s gay or not, but today he was like hey I’m not gay and I won’t hit you…I was like oh o.k. …….we talked for a little bit and then it was time to go., (we have 2 classes next to each other). After that we saw each other like 3 times and we both waved at each other and that’s it. He smiles a lot in and stuff what should I do? I’m really confused because he thinks that I’m obsessed with ‘em ( I think that he’s very cute) and my friend Dan told me that he told him that he has a g/f and I don’t know why he even brought up this conversation but his friends told me that he doesn’t have a g/f. What should I do and how should I act on from of him.
I think that his friends told me that he’s gay just to make me talk to him…..and ideas????
2006-10-20 10:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I never ever said that Dave(senior guy) is obsessed with me and yeah I know that Dan likes me
2006-10-20 10:17:22 · update #1
I'. not shy at all and i had a lot of bfnds
2006-10-20 10:21:10 · update #2
Maybe you should try talking to him. A boy asked me out and his friends said he didn't want to and now we hardly talk!!
2006-10-20 10:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by kayster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should treat him as a normal person. His friends could be lying to you. Do you know that he is obsessed with you or are you just assuming this because he smiles at you? I think you should forget about what his friends said because they don't sound like they're good friends and treat him with respect like you would any other kind person. He doesn't sound so bad .
2006-10-20 17:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, got bored at your obvious teenage angst and verbose quandry posted here.
Any ideas? Get off the internet, look up community guidelines and go outside and work it out.
Or go to mirc.com and engage in some sort of puerile cyber conversation.
2006-10-20 17:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sherlock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say something like "hey.... are you seeing anbody, because I was thinking we could go see a movie together or something." The you would find out if he had a girlfriend or not. Even if he does, you know you will be right there if he breaks up with her!!! Stay close to him and keep in touch with him.
*~Good Luck*~
2006-10-20 17:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just bring it up in conversation if he has a girlfriend or not. If he doesn't then you make the next move.. but if he does there is nothing wrong with being friends.
2006-10-20 17:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by ravenmoon76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be very frank to you let me suggest one bitter thing..To my knowledge Dan is in love with you and cannot express to you straight way so he took the help of his friend."There is someone incredible in your life.YOU !Just concentrate on your study and make a good academic carrier.
2006-10-20 17:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋