2006-10-20 10:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Arual 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's my life and I deserve to know if someone (who I actually considered spending my life with) is *** with me.
I bought a digital recorder w/ voice activated recording and up-loadable to the PC. Hide it in the room he will most likely hang out in and leave for the day. When I would come back in the evening I downloaded the recorder to my PC and replaced the batteries for the next day. I listened when he was not around w/ a good set of noise canceling headphones.
That's how I caught him.
Once I knew for-sure I had caught him I burned the audio to CD. I wanted to play it loud a party just for him but that's just mean.
It's my life and I deserve to know.
2006-10-20 13:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by ICU Riding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf at the time lived kind of far from me (3 hours) and he only came to see me about 3-4 times a month. I was always worried he would cheat on me (being so far, and not seeing me often). So, one day I decided to go visit him, and I took my cousin along with me. We drove all the way up there, and he wasn't home! So, I knew where his parents lived, and so I decided to go say hi to them (this was only because my ex and I had been in a relationship for 3 yrs, so I was pretty close to his family, or so I thought...) So I pull up on the side of there house, and his car was there! I peeked inside his car, and a girls sun glasses were on the dash! I thought, ok, maybe they are his moms...so I rang the doorbell, and his mom answered, and then immediately closed the door once she saw me. I was like, "what the hell?" So I called my guys cell...he didn't answer...my cousin and I walked around back, and him and another girl were in the spa together and all cuddled up together! I freaked out, and drove all the way home! I was so upset, but I should have known...he'd called me this girls name once before...
2006-10-20 17:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important in a relationship. If you suspect him then maybe you should move on. What kind of life can you have with someone if your always wondering if they cheat.
2006-10-20 18:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by eric s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking that, than you have some feeling´s about this thing´s so if you want to know, I think that you already know that he is cheating on you, and I thing that they always act diferent when they do this so what else can I say. listen to your feeling´s and don´t let him make a fool of you.
2006-10-20 17:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out my husband was cheating when the "other woman's" husband called me and complained that I should keep my husband occupied at home so he would leave that man's wife alone.
2006-10-20 17:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got a feeling im a good stalker
2006-10-20 17:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut tells you first and then you have to snoop and investigate and you will find the rest.
2006-10-20 17:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iasked him and since his lips were moving I knew he was lying.
2006-10-20 17:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋