I don't understand men... how can a husband/boyfriend act like all is well in the relationship one day and then the very next day cheat on you or break up with you. It is like it came out of no-where-- I am confused are they lying or what?
2006-10-20 10:01:09 · 7 answers · asked by Arual 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its sad that most guys use l love you, just to get in your pants. but there are still a few of us good guys that believe in honesty.
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-20 10:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about your boyfriend or your husband? There's quite a bit of difference between the two! Your boyfriend is just that - a guy who is your friend (with maybe some fringe benefits). If he says he loves you today and splits tomorrow, he's a lying player - move on.
BUT, if your husband does the same thing, your marriage is in serious trouble. A husband who cheats on you needs to be reminded of the vows he took before God during your wedding ceremony. You need to sit down with him and remind him of these vows. Let him know that you will not tolerate sharing him with anyone else or the lies he's been telling you!
Remember - there is always hope in a relationship as long as the two of you are communicating. I hope everything works out - God bless!
2006-10-20 10:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a quiet before the storm. He probably told you that he loved you because he had planned on breaking up with you anyway. It's possible that he does love you, but doesn't want to be with you anymore. There is a difference between having love for someone, and being in love with someone. The same thing happened to me, and I knew the guy loved me, but he didn't want to be with me because I wouldn't have sex with him.
At the same time, I respected his honesty. I'm glad that he left me alone, instead of staying with me and cheating.
2006-10-20 10:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends , they can mean it than something just comes up the next day and well that happens , they really love you but they can't help not being faithful cuzz they are of just little mind. Or yes they are lying
2006-10-20 10:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Exsavior my son is the coolest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men simply don't know what they want or how to express themselves. Maybe he said he loved you because he thought you needed to hear it. Maybe he felt that way at the time.
Remember that some men are not mature enough to really understand what love is. They think they love you when they really "like" or "lust" for you.
2006-10-20 10:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he was lying. He would say anything to get what he wants.
2006-10-20 10:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not lying...men are just men. i won't say all but some think w/ their d1(k5 not their hearts. don't sweat it. there's someone out there for all of us
2006-10-20 10:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Say It Again M'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋