2006-10-20 09:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by holla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married men who are trying to find something to take their minds off having to work at keeping their marriage together like to find a way to really escape their responsibilities.
One way for a married man to do this is to find a cheap woman to entertain them. They already know how to attract a woman (since they are married to one) and they use all this to find another woman who will entertain them and keep their minds off the responsibility of real life.
A woman would date a man like this for two reasons:
1) The woman has some for of self-esteem issues that make her think she cannot attract another man. She has to settle for a man who is telling her a ton of lies and who belongs to another woman.
2) The married men turn on the charm and sweep the other woman off her feet. They lie and say they will leave their wife and children for her - but of course they never do this. They can spin some long stories and say what ever they think this woman wants to hear.
2006-10-20 09:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many married men who are having problems with their wives do not always tell the woman they are married! :( To assume that a woman "likes" dating a married woman is not true.
The bigger question is why do married men feel the way to heal or fix the problems in their relationship is to involve another person emotions and heart?
Stop blaming the woman who is brought into the situation. If she knowingly gets involved with a married men that is one thing -- but usually a married man isn't that honest with her either.
2006-10-20 09:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of times women that sleep with married men do it cause it's like a game to them to see if they can get him away from his wife. They feel they have a advantage since his marriage is on the rocks.
2006-10-20 09:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are the meanest creatures outthere. They can't stand to see another woman who is prettier, happier, richer than they are. No self steem. SO when they get involved with a married man its like they are doing something cool, its a power trip. They thrive on other person's misery and hardships. But karma is a b*tch too.
2006-10-20 10:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because married men are "safe", there is no threat of having to make a committment.
2006-10-20 20:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is going on with my mom, but finally my mom divorced him. Girl I wouldn't take nothing from that man b/c if he really loves you he wouldn't cheat and do all that mess. And the girl I would ask her if she even knew about me before I got her.
Good luck girl!!!
2006-10-20 09:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by puggie224 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they just want sex, or are dumb enough to believe he'll leave her.
But these types of men can be the most fun and freakey!
2006-10-20 10:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz you only get the good parts of the guy, and when YOU are done with him you can send him home. No cleaning up after him, or arguing because he's a worthless schmuck with no motivation, spine, whatever. They rarely have enough time to wear out their welcome.
2006-10-20 09:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by wensell 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well probably if she feel she don't get what she wants or deserve in her mariage she will try to get it from someone else.
Mary
2006-10-20 09:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaper than buying batteries and you don't have to pick up after them.
2006-10-20 10:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋