it slipped,It really hurt is there any thing that I could do to lessen the pain. Any special creams, Even with my smallest toy it still hurts.
2006-10-20 09:01:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
This happened to me before. It slipped and I couldn't walk right for 2 days. Ouch! I was afraid to try it again, but I'm glad that I did. You have to make sure that you lube up the area very well. KY jelly or something similar works well. You have to make sure that you are comfortable with this otherwise it will not work. You have to relax or it is not going to go in. Tell your boyfriend that he has to be extra gentle and you will tell him if it is hurting you or not. It takes a lot of communication to try something new. If he inserts it a little bit and gently pushes a little at a time until you are comfortable, it should slide all the way in and then he can begin gently thrusting. I find this to be a very pleasurable style but it took a few times to get the hang of it. Don't listen to the critics. This position is not for everyone. Only do what you are comfortable with. Give it a try and make sure you stop if you are experiencing any pain. It may burn a little for the first few minutes before your boyfriend is all the way in.
You can suggest to your boyfriend that he could try using his fingers if he wants and gently play with your anus beforehand and see if that feels more comfortable.
2006-10-20 15:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by star28mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain you'll do it otherwise.... the enema will have to particularly come a couple of hours earlier than the anal... or else you're uncooked and it hurts plenty greater than it demands to. And use a silicone headquartered lube that would possibly not be absorbed via the dermis. And be certain to permit her set the intensity, strain and velocity... if she's in manage it will not do any harm as a lot. Do study... print off study... provide an explanation for that you've got performed study. Tell her you're obsessed due to the fact she used to do it together with her ex such a lot. She would possibly say sure, she would possibly say no. At that factor, receive it, a minimum of for now. Personally, I'd be stricken that she used to be extra intimate with a few man than me and that she used to be nonetheless speaking to him. EDIT: Tim does make a well factor. I get like that, too. So aroused and so needy there may be NOTHING I would possibly not do if it manner an orgasm and/or his (or any individual's) c*ck in me someplace.
2016-09-01 00:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only do it if you want to. Being nervous makes you tense and thereby makes it painful.
They do make a lube called anal-ease or something that is supposed to be numbing. Go really slow. Use a condom!
I just flat wouldn't do it, but if you want to try that.
2006-10-20 09:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's a good reason it hurts. It is not natural and unsanitary. That's how people get AIDS. The fecal matter infects the bloodstream after the lining of the colon is broken. You might try checking out the dangers before you get into that type of sex...)(
2006-10-20 09:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
When are you going to stop pretending to be a woman? Just have the operation, already!
2006-10-23 07:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by wendy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It accidentally just fell in there!! There is this stuff at sex shops called anal ease...good luck
2006-10-20 10:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by *~Love is Dead~* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fist let me ask you Do you really want to do it? O your boyfriend is the one.... Think twice
2006-10-20 09:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by hola 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go to cvs the have some sort of creams for that.next time u wanna do that go to wal mart and get one of dem equate lbricants vale?
2006-10-20 09:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
it will hurt the first time for a little while you can get pleasure from it also you don't have to buy anything fancy just use baby oil
2006-10-20 09:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Anal Ease. It should be in "Adult Novelty" shops. Make sure he uses a condom, though. If you don't, it will numb his penis.
2006-10-20 09:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by NYC Tim 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋