my fiance is going to a bach party tommorrow in atlanitc city and staying the nght im not comfortable with him going....I told him how I feel he said theres nothing he can do hes gotta go what should I do should I be mad at him cause hes going or just let him go and drop it???
2006-10-20 08:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've had somewhat of a similar situation happen to me. You just have to let him go, and don't worry about it! He loves YOU, and in the end, he's coming back to YOU! He needs to KNOW that you trust him. When he comes back, don't ask him a million questions...he'll tell you. You will be surprised as to how far trust and love can go :)
2006-10-20 08:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust him a little bit more and let him go to the bachelor party and just accept that it's just a boy's night out thing and you can't go. Also think about how he would handle the situation if it was you going to a bachelorette party and staying the night in another city or state he would prolly trust you enough to let you go and not be mad or feel like you were gonna do something stupid. Just stop thinking negatively and trust your man.
2006-10-20 15:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand his explanation, there is something he can do about it, he could not go. You should not be mad at him but it does tell you something about how much your feelings mean to him. I am married so maybe I see things a little different. A few weeks ago I was asked if I wanted to go to a bachlor party and be the designated driver, they offered to pay me, but I didnt go because that is not the kind of environment I chose to be in as a married man.
2006-10-20 15:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be mad? There's suppose to be trust in the relationship, obviously you feel otherwise. Your husband must attend this engagement. Let him go. If, and only if, your husband decide to do something that will ACTUALLY jeopardize his relationship with you, then you have all right's to be angry. Right not, you're getting yourself all in a fuss mainly over nothing. That's not right to treat your husband that way.
2006-10-20 15:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this comment of his "nothing he can do" sounds like a cop-out.
I think he has some real fun in mind and has set his respect for your feelings aside and will use any excuse to go.
Be mad? Maybe disappointed and may also start some mistrust. I hope the party is worth it!
2006-10-20 15:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gowith him to the hotel have an evening to yourself but when he gets back u r there
2006-10-20 15:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by R C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let him go!!! u got to trust him. even if u do get mad he still going to go. that's just guys
2006-10-20 15:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you don't trust him.. has he ever given you a reason for you not to trust him?? and if something does happen, i hope he tells you.... and if something does happen that you don't like, then, well, i'm sorry for that and you need to make the decision from there...
2006-10-20 15:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him to go this early on in your relationship, then are you sure you should be marrying him???
2006-10-20 15:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by baka_desho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why is he not taking you? a beach party? he's gonna be a bad boy, u r doomed. why can't he listen to you if u are really his girlfriend?
2006-10-20 15:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by thehelper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋