me and my best guy friend are virgins but want to be prepared when it comes to sex. is it really ok to have friends with benefits and experiement with each other?
2006-10-20 08:17:56 · 29 answers · asked by lphotofreak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is it ok... well it is not illegal (hopefully, getting into an age thing here is not what I am looking for). I think it is a really bad idea. No one faults a virgin for not knowing what they are doing. It is a good thing, it shows innocence. I would recomend waiting for the person you want to give your virginity to and not just some friend because you are bored. Keep in mind this is a great way to lose friends. There are two things that can change a relationship like no other, money and sex. Money is not the issue here, but sex certainly is. Once you have crossed that line with a friend, you cannot uncross it. Once you have slept with someone, it changes how you look at each other, for good and bad. It also may mean a whole lot more to them than it does to you. I would say it is a very bad idea, but the choice is yours. If you do decide it is right for you, please be sure to be old enough to make this decision, and use protection. Accidents can happen, even on the first time.
2006-10-20 08:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice how most of the guys say go for it!!!! Do u guys want to be each others booty call? Isn't that what friends with benefits is?
I'd say don't do it, not unless you guys really want to be more than just friends & have feelings towards each other. If y'all do it, u'll just ruin your friendship, things won't be the same. B'sides, if you guys are virgins, y not wait 'til that someone special comes along, i can guarantee that it will be a lot better & you'll enjoy it more, 'cuz it'll be with someone you love. Don't do it just to do it, be patient, ur time will come & u wont regret it.
there's no need to experiment, y'all will know what to do when ur first time comes.
2006-10-20 08:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lil'MissSnshne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time should be with someone you love and be very special. However, you could experiment with your guy friend. It may end up turning into something special between the two of you. Just make sure it's what you both want and it won't ruin your friendship.
2006-10-20 08:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by gab_b_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful chances are one of you is going to start to want to be more then just friends with benefits its emotinal waste of time so no give your virginity to the person that u love not someone that you don't love and just want to get it over with your first time should be your best time mine was not and I have been peeved ever since LOL
2006-10-20 08:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its more than ok its expected
wait what im i saying if ur asking that question then your not ready to have a f buddy
dont just do it because u want 2 b experienced thats called being a slut
2006-10-20 08:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could get ugly sweetie.. u dont want to hurt each other or hurt yourselves.. it could ruin your friendship.. u may want to think this over prior to doing anything you'll regret later.. i think doing things like that are way to serious.. to go experimenting with some friend.. i think you should wait until you find that person that you know it will mean something with..
2006-10-20 08:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by TwigEboneS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really the right thing to do but ??????
If you want to try out some new things then I guess he's the Right one to do them with....Have fun playing with each other
2006-10-20 08:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own views, if you BOTH think it's alright, then go ahead. But, if I were you, I wouldn't experiment with anyone. We are human beings, not toys.
2006-10-20 08:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u first before i answer yes or no but i can say u will ruin a great friend ship if you do so think about it first
2006-10-20 08:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by ann p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....bad idea. Unless you want to lose a friend in the process.
2006-10-20 08:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋