Me and my bestfriend arent talking and theres no reason for it....should i go and talking to her aout it or should i just let her come to me. And she acts so stupid somethmes and she has major mood swings. She also acts really stupid with my bf what should i do???
2006-10-20 08:12:14 · 20 answers · asked by Cynthia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
for starters I would stop calling her stupid.
2006-10-20 08:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is having mood swings and dissing on your man then she may be jealous. If you feel you should apologize, then do it and go on, but if she did the wrong thing, then give her time. She is not a real friend if she is treating you like crap, she maybe going through something, talk to her. My best friend and I used to fight about the most stupid things, but we worked them out because we tell each other when the other did something wrong. It can also be that you two are silent competitors, my best friend and I are, but we just learned to compete over the friendly things, not at everything in life. Ya'll will figure it out.
2006-10-20 15:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by deedeed2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a very good friend, but since she is your best friend, she's probably upset about something. Go to her and tell her the impression you've been getting and see if she has something to get out in the open.
And for the stupid thing...she might just be immature or she gets nervous around him.
Major mood swings usually result when something is bothering someone.
2006-10-20 15:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by blondegurl8907 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if you were my bestfriend and said I act stupid, have major mood swings and am really stupid with your boyfriend, then you wouldn't be a best friend. Did you think that maybe she doesn't like you saying she is STUPID! It certainly isn't very nice.
2006-10-20 15:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Thats what you two should do. Theres no reason really that you guys arent talking? Maybe theres your clue. Friends arent like that when you are older.
2006-10-20 15:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she your best friend if you are so critical of her. sounds like you really need to work on acceptance and look at your own behaviors. you don't sound like your being the best friend you could be. and if that is your best.....you should take a look at it again. best friends don't call each other stupid and put each other down. i would stay away from her till you have had a chance to see the error of your own ways.
2006-10-20 15:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cynthia,
If you value your friendship with her go talk to her. When two people are in a disagreement about something it only takes one to speak first. Be that person.
TDCWH
2006-10-20 15:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont talk to her soon you too will start to drift apart and things will feel aqward around each other. unless you want it like that. but i think you should talk to her. ask her whats bugging her and why she is always actin werird with your bf
2006-10-20 15:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all that aint yo bestfriend cause she wouldnt act stupied wit you and yo bf and let her come to you **** her better yet leave her alone she no good!!!!!!
2006-10-20 15:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by lakendra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She us ur best bud go and talk to her about the problem
2006-10-20 15:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by AA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to her. find out what the matter is and see what is going on with her
2006-10-20 15:15:28 · answer #11 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋