People were saying how i should repeat my question with better grammer so here goes -
I had 3 friends Jack, Braddunn and Shanai. A few years ago,in year 8 or 9 (now Im in year 10) my 2 friends Jack and Braddunn started taking drugs, they have been taking mushrooms and smoking crack. Im confused because Braddunn is my really good mate and me and Jack going out. Ive tried talking to them but both wont listen. I know I cant tell anyone I know because they will get in trouble.
The other part of the problem is that Jack moved to Stoke-On-Trent whereas i live in Birmingham and we can only talk on msn and text. When we do talk he just says that because I keep bugging him about the drugs he dosent love me anymore. Now im really confused about our relationship and dont know what to do. Also Braddunn also doesnt talk to me as much, because he is going out with Shanai we dont talk to her much either. So now the four of us are falling apart and I dont know what to do. Please help me Thanks
2006-10-20 08:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I actually went to a drug clinic a picked up an inforamational package for my co-worker who was out of control with cocaine. This was the first step, then she spun outta control and ended up going to the place the information was from. Don't start with You have a problem...that is not what they want to hear. Look for some help in your town or city just as a fall back plan for this person, and hopefully he will eventually see this is a life saving lesson.
2016-05-22 05:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are choosing different paths for their lives. You seem to want something better, and that is good. Yes, it does hurt because you miss them and the relationships you've shared, the good times and the longing for what was. That is normal. But, they are losing brain cells, they will be wasting away. You have chosen a better path.
Go find a mirror. Now look at yourself. Look into your eyes, at your hair, you skin. Your nose. Your cheeks, your chin. Yeah, you might feel silly. It's okay. Give yourself a little smile. Come on, just a little one. Now wink. Now stick out your tongue. See? You are strong. You can do it without friends who want to bring you down.
You are important. You have your whole life ahead of you. There are so many new people you haven't met, who will like you for YOU! You don't need friends who do drugs. Your great personality is all that is needed.
So come on, what are you waiting for. Smile again at yourself and look forward to the future with the new friends you haven't met yet.
2006-10-20 08:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by 7aliens 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, it's time you found some new friends!
The drugs are a factor, their cahnging your friends and it's also your age. People really seem to start picking their path their going to follow for awhile at this age.
It seems to me that your the smartest one of the group! Good for you.
Find new friends sweety I know you care about them, but their not careing for you or themselves at this point.
2006-10-20 08:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for not taking drugs just to fit in with your friends. Try to find some new friends who are more like you. At your age you'll change friends as you all grow and learn what you're each about.
2006-10-20 08:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its tough growing up and growing apart. But its obviously caused because none of you have the same interests anymore. Thats what happens when people start to grow up. They find better things to do, and eventually you make and lose friends.
2006-10-20 08:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard to do if you all were close, but it's time to move on and get some new friends. There's nothing positive about taking drugs and drugs are only going to destroy your life if you take them. I had a friend that did cocaine and weed and i tried in vain to help her get her life together but she just refused to get help so i had no choice but to let her go. You as a friend can only do so much. They have to want to get clean.
2006-10-20 08:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
When people are addicted to drug especially like crack, speed, crystal meth etc... they tend to push evryone outta their lives, 'cause the drugs are their lives, try to talk them outta of it as much as you can, but slowly get away from it, it will only ruin your life. RUN BABY RUN as fast as you can the other way!!!
2006-10-20 08:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life ,these people can get you into lots of trouble.make a clean start,make new friends that dont do drugs.i wish you all the luck in the world,from mikhal in israel.
2006-10-20 08:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by mikhal k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its obvious you've lost those friends. if you want to have them back, u may have to do drugs and ruin your life, so which would you like to sacrifice ? there is the possibility that your friends will one day see their error and change thus you'll get them back but there's not guarantee that you can get your life back if you ruin it. LET THEM GO.THIS IS THE SACRIFICE YOU MUST BEAR
2006-10-20 08:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by kurekt 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to get away from them you cant help them youcan only help you self im an add. i didevertthing there doing and much morre iv been clean for 1 year and i with i never did it at all you can help anyone that does not want your help and if you stay with them your going to get sucked in trust me that is how it happened to me first..... pot..... then ....e......... lsd.......and more and more i was on drugs for 7 years befor i saw what they where doing to me ps it is harder for guys to grow out of it just stay away please im beggen you please
2006-10-20 08:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by schansack87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋