Coz I'm going though this stage of my marriage with my wonderful husband. I easily get wet and so horny when I'm thinking romantically of my co-worker (and one-week sex partner). I fantasize very often that he is once again taking me completely, that we are once again having the wild copulation we have had a few weeks ago. Gosh, just asking this question makes me wanna be with him again, in spite of my husband's devotion to me. Is this behavior common with married women, specially newly married ones?
2006-10-20 08:00:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would assume this to be a serious question and if so then...no, this behavior is not common to all women. Just the ones who lack morals such as yourself.
2006-10-20 08:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to me that you have already had this man. I hope that he is wearing his little rain coat. Anyway, I thought that I would be answering this question because you fantasize about having this person, but you had him so you are breaking one of the ten commandments. Adultery!!! But not to judge or anything...You say wonderful husband right? Well why aren't you just making sweet love to him? If you need something to give you memories about him, start some new ones with him.
2006-10-20 08:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes very common and often asked here.
It is the forbidden fruit that you crave. I suggest you becareful and try not to cross the line with your co-worker if you can as that can send you to a road that can be difficult and challenging and painful.
I suggest you take that wonderful sexual energy that has been created and spend it all on your husband and do all the naughty things you desire to do with your co-worker with your husband, and maybe just maybe you can get back to that place in your mind that leads you back to your husband, You need to remember when you used to think about your husband that way.
i'm serious when I say bring a mini vibrator to work and pleasure yourself in the bathroom or car on break.
Then go home be the naughtest woman you can be for your man!!
2006-10-20 08:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, it's not common with newlyweds, no. Newlyweds are usually caught up in the whirlwind of new relationship energy and are oblivious to anything but their new mate. So I'd say what you are feeling is odd and uncommon, but not unheard of. You're most likely experiencing some normal trepidation about the marraige that is manifesting in these wild fantasies. Try satiating some of these fantasies with your husband, and if your infatuation doesn't fade in a few months (it may take that long), then I suggest seek therapy/counselling of some sort to pilfer through the dogpile of inner demons amassing in your head.
2006-10-20 08:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in the middle of an affair.
"wild copulation we have had a few weeks ago"
The affair may be exciting, but I think you may want to ask people. How much pain do they think their affair caused their spouse, their family and themselves? And finally if it was worth it?
Affairs are incredibly seductive and romantic because they are an escape from the day to day boring world of life. HOWEVER, they have a short shelf life and if they last too long they become life and you would just need an escape from it too.
"Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it."
2006-10-20 08:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not commen. It is one thing fantasising about another man but you have been with this guy. Why in the heck did you get married in the first place!!!!! Sounds like you really were not ready. Sounds as though you had to tell everyone about how wet the person gets you. You are nasty!!!
2006-10-20 08:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dosent happen to me,ever. Perhaps because our sex life in incredible satisfying. I do,however,think about him with other women and he has thought about me with other men. But no,I never get wet over other men.
2006-10-20 08:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's one thing to fantasize about cheating, but it's a whole other topic when you actually DO IT!!!
Come on girl, be faithful!!!
2006-10-20 08:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong!!! You should not be thinking of other men while you and your husband are having sex. Should not be thinking of other men period!!!
2006-10-20 08:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is honey...Just finger yourself to an climaz when you thinking about him and have some fun,,,Go ahead and do it right now....
2006-10-20 08:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋