I have a crush on this girl who is also one of my closest friends. She doesn't know I love her and I was wondering if I should tell her and how I should tell her or if I should just wait.
2006-10-20 07:47:58 · 10 answers · asked by K_man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her! Ive been the girl in this possition before! Just last year one of my best guy-friends liked me and he finally told me and we ended up going out for almost 4 months... and even though we broke up we're still great friends... so if you can get the guts to do it just do it! Hope this helps have a great day!
2006-10-20 10:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready to accept the possibility that she may not feel the same and your confession may destroy the friendship; you will need distance to heal and she will feel awkward around you and unable to confide things a friend does to a friend, as opposed to a friend talking to someone with intimate feelings invested... When you're ready to accept the possibility that things may not come out all roses and rainbows, and that you could lose a friendship (at the very least it may never be the same), tell her of your emotions. If this is one friendship you absolutely MUST have for the rest of your life no matter what, then work on getting over her and tucking away that deep, inner soul secret of yours, because still feeling for her and yet waiting and not saying anything is one of the most painful places in the world to be in.
2006-10-20 15:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Some of the best relationships come from being close friends first. So why wait? You may miss out on the love of your life if you wait.
2006-10-20 14:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You always have to be close friends before, you are together. If she is a good friend tell her and see what her reaction is, you never know until you try, she may be just waiting for you to make the first move.
2006-10-20 14:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wait you may lose her she might find a nother guy
but tell her maybe she feels the same way about you. just don't hurt your friendship if she isnt interested in you
then..well that could damage your friendship that was their and make it a little bit awkward but i say go for it hun!
2006-10-20 14:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait ,you could lose her to someone else. Work up the courage and tell her how you feel about her.
2006-10-20 14:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a sticky situation. in my experience, its better to leave it alone, but i lost a great friend because we started going out. it changes everything. or on the other hand it depends on how she feels about you. you should talk to her. be positive about it and be open to any kind of answer she gives you. be honest and upfront.
2006-10-20 14:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Amber K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel i also have a crush on my best guy friend
2006-10-20 14:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by roshae2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what? Go for it!
2006-10-20 14:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont tell her than it must not be love
2006-10-20 14:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋