Last night I had a dream about my boyfriend. I was living with him & I came home from work, as I was walking through the door I was say'n "Hey Babie, I'm Ho..." as I was saying Hey babie, I'm Home... I was walking to our bedroom & before I could say Home I saw my boyfriend having intercourse with a girl I never met. In my dream my boyfriend said "Oh ****, this isn't what I seems" as he was jumping off of her & scambling for his cloths, I said " what the **** is this?! Oh yeah it's not what it seems, What you just happend to to fall on her butt *** naked with her legs wide open?" Then all of a sudden I woke up cause my phone was ring'n and it was my boyfriend he call'd me at 11:56pm to tell me that he has a job interview & to tell me goodnight. I asked him why he called me so late and he didn't answer, So I told him goodnight & he said well i'll call you tomarrow k, I said yeah & hung up the phone. After I hung up the phone I had the same dream but this time it was at his parents house.
2006-10-20 06:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by Jacqueline87 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Is there an insecurity with you about your boyfriend ?
Or maybe as a woman in general?
Ask yourself this question and you will get your answer.
2006-10-20 07:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/c2.htm
Cheating
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.
To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.
2006-10-20 14:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dreams of a cheating partner... actually reflects just the opposite... it means that your relationship is stable and secure... with your boyfriend... however if you are having an affair.. than the boyfriend in the dream was actually your guilt of what you did to him
2006-10-23 09:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have that thought in the back of your mind sometimes. Doesn't mean he's actually cheating. My husband has those dreams all the time...But he is very insecure...It's normal.
2006-10-20 14:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by winterblues 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-21 14:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you are insecure and you don't trust him... maybe you have reason, maybe not... a good relationsahip is based on trust... trust him or leave him and those dreams will stop.
2006-10-20 14:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by joe d 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it means you're insecure in the relationship
2006-10-20 14:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋