the first day of my last period started on april 7 or 8.....my cycles are regular....me and my boyfriend dont use condoms at all....he mostly ejaculates inside.....me and him get in a huge fight (not physically) on may 1....so i left .....ihad sex with someone else on may 2.......(with condom)my next period should be on may 6....but did'nt come......i took a dollar store brand test on (may 10.....and may 18) which came back positive......i went to the doctor on june 5....vaginal sonogram showed that i was in my 9th week of pregnancy.....im now 28weeks pregnant....and my due date is january 13th 07.......tell me how the heck could the other guy posible be the father.........my doctor also says that i conceived in april.....is'nt my bf crazy?.....he's helping me with my pregnancy and everything else.........he buys every thing for the baby.....but i think he's just plain crazy at time......does the other guy stand a chance?
2006-10-20 06:53:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
go to the maury show for what? i dont need to go to the maury show to embarass and exalt myself...because even if i hd slept with 5 different men...i would rather the paternity testing be very private.
2006-10-20 07:00:54 · update #1
im not some trailer trash that live off welfare....i can more than provide for myself and my child......so be negative all u want ....because word is wind...as u open ur mouth and talk they dissappear
2006-10-20 07:03:29 · update #2
boy i hate all the periods u use, but anyway.....................i think ur bf is the father. it would be hard if he has a doubt of being the father. pregnancy is hard enough to cope with for men and he has the doubt of being the father and the unstable relationship to deal with.
don't think about anything but a healthy baby and eventually he will follow. this is what i'm trying with my hubby and i think he's coming around. he was just plain afraid but he's getting better
2006-10-20 07:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by confused mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the dates you put out there, its your boyfriends baby, but I will tell you this, maybe when the baby is born you should get a DNA test anyway, In the hospital right after the baby is born and the reason is, you never want him to hold this over your head and have a reason later not to do for the child when it gets here. That is why you see so many girls on Maury show getting DNA test because the man was there in the beginning and then had a change of heart and some of these children are 6 and 7 years of age, that is crazy. Just get the test and that way when it comes back he is the father he can't deny this child anything because he knew from day one that the baby was his. If more women did this instead of being scared there children wouldn't be thinking one man is there father when it is some one else. Not saying this will happen to you but just do it to shut him up. Good luck and God Bless and Congrats on the baby.
2006-10-20 08:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by msleya2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant, due January 22nd and conceived May 1st. Since you are due before me, you would have conceived around April 22nd while you were still with your boyfriend.
If he doesn't believe you, go online and look for a pregnancy due date calculator that can take your due date and back into the conception date. That way your boyfriend can see you conceived while you were with him, not the other guy.
2006-10-20 07:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by aliza1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend 1 (the one that you left and had a fight with) is the father.
Boyfriend 2 (not sure if you are with him now?) no way he is the father.
2006-10-20 07:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by stocks4allseasons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other guy WANTS to be in the baby's life...and isn't crazy..(and IS the father..) I'd give HIM the chance! How do you know he won't go crazy again...with you pregnant?! and what if NEXT time it gets physical?! I'd use my head and TRY to sort out what's best for the baby!! THAT'S the one who is going to have it rough...
2006-10-20 07:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably scared (and excited) at the thought of being a father. He's probably saying it 's the other guys because he is hurt. See if he wants to get a DNA test to prove you right. Should solve things.
2006-10-20 06:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your boyfriends. You were pregnant already by the time you were with the other guy. So, tell him no worries. Quit fighting and take care of that baby. Good luck
2006-10-20 07:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by kelsdaddy01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its yourboyfreinds baby he is just trippin because its in the back of his head that you were with someone eles and the baby may not be his. but buy the dates it is his.
2006-10-20 06:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no way the same thing happened to me.. It ended up it was my boyfriends and he looks just like him. Good luck with everything...
2006-10-20 06:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Maury to sort this one out.
2006-10-20 06:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋