Hi, I have a friend that I know from Yahoo! Answers. He's a 15 y/o boy(same age as I do) and he has scoliosis(same as me).
Everytime he reply my email he always says that he wanna commit a suicide. And then I would always calm him down , saying that that is not a good thing to end your life.(He also have a lot of family problems and low self esteem)
Yesterday I check his profile in Yahoo! Answer, and he hasn't been active in Yahoo! for about more than 1 month...I'm really scared that he really killed himself. Coz usually he's always using Yahoo answers every single day.
Please give me advice, I don't want to lose my friend, coz he is very nice to share with..
2006-10-20 06:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by ẄỚҲЁ⅝ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You could just try leaving messages with him, there's not much else that u can eally do. he might also just be after attention, and by saying he's going to commit suicide he's garaunteed that. he's probably just gone on holiday or is really busy at the moment. try not to worry. i felt like kiling myself recently, but i couldn't do it, u need nerves of steel. gd luck awith him anyway.
2006-10-20 06:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by bxiok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is it's very likely that he's just been busy or occupied with other things, people tend to drift in and out of messageboards and things like that.
Others have given good advice about what to do, I just want to add one thing.
Even if it is the worst case scenario, please don't feel guilty. When somebody's going through a rough time like he is/was having someone care is the best thing that can happen. You can know for sure that his life is better for having known you than if he never had.
2006-10-20 15:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has got agirlfriend or something good happened to him and when something like that happens to people with low self esteem, they tend to forget everything else.
Don't worry. He should be fine and I'm sure he didn't mean it because even I feel like suiciding sometimes but then everything changes after an hour.
Maybe he came to Yahoo answers only when he was sad and wanted to tell it to someone.
2006-10-20 06:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with some of the other repliers,maybe write him an email,call him,talk to his parents about the issue.it could possibly be that his computer is indeed down or his service has been interrupted.he probably also did find other things to do outside of using the computer and took a break but dont blame yourself for it.Im saddened that he has got to this point.If he is mad about his illness he has probably also become withdrawn and maybe develpoing depression..either ways lets hope for the best..be prepared for the worst and definately keep in prayer...hope everything works out..add somedetails if it does....good luck.
2006-10-20 07:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by NeedHealing26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....I'm really sorry but first lets think positive......maybe his computer is down....First step consult him online....I know he hasn't been on but keep trying. In worst case senario he did commit suicide.....don't put all the pressure on yourself by thinking....Oh i could of stop him...Blah Blah Blah.....I have scoliosis and if thats the reason he wants to kill himself...that is really stupid. Anyways I would also try to talk to adult to give you more advice....Good Luck!
2006-10-20 06:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Luchia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there is nothing you can do - but the chances are he hasn't killed himself. He's just not been online. If a person really wanted to die, they most certainly wouldn't share it with anyone. They'd just get on and do it. So don't get yourself worked up about it. I pretty sure he's fine.
2006-10-20 06:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, keep trying. tell your parents about it. They should know what to do. Maybe by giving the authorities his email address they can get ahold of somebody that knows how to track him down. talk to your parents or an adult as soon as possible, don't wait!
2006-10-20 06:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by mrjketernal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know him call him or his mother, call the school he went to and ask about him. If he is an email buddy send a email to his account and pray that somebody responds. im sorry tho. I feel like crying about this now.
2006-10-20 06:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Convuluted and excluded 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if ever he did commit suicide, dont be hard on yourself. its not your fault.
just to uplift you, some suiciders really dont say they are about to. they keep it in theirselves. mostly, im not saying all, those who announced such acts just bluffs.
lets hope in this case he is.
to have a peace of mind, pray. for your friend to have strenght and faith.
2006-10-20 06:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by johannea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know his name or number, its hard to know for sure. Give it sometime, maybe he is in the sick in hospital and will write when he gets back home
2006-10-20 06:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by jr90292 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋