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Well I fill this way cuz everytime I call its like hey i'll call you later. Or like he doesn't wanna hang out with me! N also hes also always with other chicks! What should I do? Could he be cheating?

2006-10-20 06:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Are you sure he's your b/f? Cause that sure doesn't sound like a boyfriend to me. Forget him and move on cause without a doubt he's stringing you and a few other girls along.

2006-10-20 06:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by LuvGrapes 2 · 1 0

I don't know how to gently break it to you, but this guy isn't your boyfriend. He doesn't want to talk to you on the phone or hang out with you and he's always with other girls. You're getting really bad treatment from this guy but he isn't cheating on you. He's not acting like a boyfriend in anyway so he can't be cheating on you. In his mind, there's no relationship with you to cheat on! Find someone who will treat you better. You can't do much worse.

2006-10-20 06:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0 0

When he suddenly has things to do that he never had to do before...when he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude toward you is changing, if he tells you he "just needs some ME time" If you live together some of these are signs too... 1. Lower desire to be with you sexually. 2. Suddenly tries new sexual positions. 3. Working late more often. 4. Mysterious phone calls. 5. Gets angry when you look at the cell phone, pager, or computer. Is secretive of such. 6. Smell of perfume on their clothing. 7. Takes a shower as soon as he comes home. 8. You find hairs or other objects on his body or in his possessions. 9. Starts taking more care with his appearance. 10. Accuses you of cheating. 11. He changes his normal routine without cause or reason.

2016-03-18 22:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you're unhappy or don't trust him or don't feel he has time for you or feel he doesn't want to be with you and is always with other chicks, what DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE if he's cheating or not? Obviously he's just not that into you, so break up with him. The cheating is irrelevant.

2006-10-20 06:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You've been together several months, but something doesn't feel quite right with your partner. You start wondering if he or she might be having an affair. Is it jealousy, your imagination or just apathy that is the result of long-term complacency with each other? It can be hard to tell sometimes, but when in doubt go with your gut and look for the following behaviors that might mean your mate is having an affair.

Oddly, your partner might be having an affair if he or she is acting MORE attentive than usual to you. If you are suddenly showered with gifts and compliments in what almost seems like an inappropriate manner, then he or she might be trying to make up for guilty feelings.

Look for a sudden change in your partner's routine. Is he or she staying out a lot longer than usual, not showing up for dinner or unaccountable at times for his or her whereabouts? If your partner suddenly alters his or her daily habits that too can be a sign of cheating.

If your partner is frequently picking fights with you, that might also mean big trouble. The emotional logic behind this is that picking a fight gives him or her to an excuse to fly out of the house and possibly into the arms of the third party. That way the cheating partner can deny guilty feelings and blame you instead. If you are not to blame, a cheater will create a reason to justify what he or she is doing to you.

Your mate might also become overly critical of you. This is part of an agenda that once again, gives them an excuse to leave or justify the affair. The guilty partner might also be overly sensitive to criticism from you as there may be a ring of truth that triggers guilty feelings that they would rather not face.

If every time you have fight your partner threatens you with ending the relationship, you might also have a cheater on your hands. Your lover feels safe with these ultimatums because they have another person as "back-up" should the two of you decide to split up.

Another sign of cheating is a consistent negative attitude towards the relationship and comments that make you feel as if you have an expiry date inked on your forehead. This might include saying such things as "I would like to travel next year." (with no mention of a "we") or "You know I will always love you, even if this ever ended."

If your lover becomes withdrawn and depressed, it could be that he or she is brooding about what they have done and can't handle the guilt. Sudden explosive displays of affection or anger can also be a bad sign, as the partner might be transferring emotional reactions from the infidelity onto you simply because you see each other more often. In other words, you may be the recipient of a mood that is not due to any of your actions at all.

If your mate becomes incommunicative and refuses to interact with you, this can also be a sign of cheating. He or she might seem cold or inconsiderate of your feelings and be less intimate with you in general. This kind of psychological distancing includes such behaviors such as locking the bathroom door when he or she has always left it open. They may also insist that they pick up their own dry cleaning or keep locked drawers. They may also insist on doing their own laundry. If he or she seems extra finicky about personal boundaries or seems to be trying to set new rules about privacy, this is also a warning sign.

Relationship experts say that if your partner's taste in clothing, movies or music suddenly changes, than they may be trying please their new lover.

Another sign of cheating is if your partner seems to be a bit over the top when cutting up or criticizing a person that both of you know quite well. This is a common tactic used to conceal an affair that leads you believe that nothing would ever be possible between the two of them.

Perhaps the biggest indication that you might be dealing with a cheater is if they stop acting as if they are a part of your life. They may lose complete interest in family, friends or following through on mutual financial goals or plans for the future. Your mate also might be reluctant to go out of town for any reason, as that might cause a crisis in his or her other relationship.

If you do discover that your mate is cheating, you are likely to go through the five stages of grief - shock denial, anger, sadness and acceptance. There is no underestimating the enormous impact of these reactions, even if you had a gut feeling that you knew about the affair all along.

Your relationship will also probably go through three phases. The first is the reaction to the affair, the second is the decision as to what to do about it and the last is a recuperation phase (whether or not you decide to stick it out with your partner in the end.) If your partner is willing to be part of the decision and recuperation phases, it is highly recommended that you seek marriage or relationship counseling to deal with the fall-out from the infidelity.

2006-10-20 06:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Go with your gut if you think he is cheating he probably is just talk to him about cuz that is the only way you will know sounds like to me he isn't intrested in being in a relationship with you

2006-10-20 06:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Carey 2 · 0 0

There is a saying "if there's smoke, there's fire".

The majority of the time, if you suspect he is cheating, then your instincts are usually right.

Not all the time, but from what I have seen personally, it is usually the case.

Why not just ask him and see how he reacts? If he gets overly defensive, you have your answer.

2006-10-20 06:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by totsandtwins04 3 · 0 0

First of all, he's a boyfriend. You can have as many of those that you want if you're not married or engaged. Second, if it "feels" like he's "cheating", he is. He's not your husband honey. Get yourself another man on the side and leave this one if you're not happy. Two can play that game. Godloveya.

2006-10-20 06:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0 1

Ask him... a good way is to ask him and listen to his heartbeat. If his heartbeat speeds up, he is probably nervous and hiding something.
Also a good way to tell cheaters is that they can be very accusitionary, because of their guilt. So if he starts accusing YOU of cheating, then run - don't walk - the other way.

2006-10-20 06:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he isn't call you very often he is probably cheating on you. because i think if someone really loves you he always want to see you or want to hear your voice. trust me and good luck

2006-10-20 06:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by vuslat 1 · 0 0

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