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a guy i dated in high school, whom i was totally crazy about has recently come back in to my life, as a friend. He lives near where i work and stoped by tonight only cause he seen i was working. we havent dated in like 12 almost 13 years, and and up until a few months ago it had been almost 8 years since i have seen him! he stayed and talked to me for a long while, talked about how our relationship was so good back then, and the problems we both have now with them, My question is, every guy that i have ever dated, once the relationship ws over i tossed all the memetoes.....but the pictures of this man and i, and letters and stuff from him, i have helt on to for now almost 13 years, and not really meaning to, what is the deal, i even forgot i had the stuff until i recently moved. tonight talking to him, all the love i felt for him so long ago, came back and was slapping me in the face, and now i dont know what to do!! Please help! he is single and so am i.....

2006-10-20 06:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by merrittmom03 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Well, honey, I'd say just keep doing what you are doing. If he comes back around, he's interested in renewing the relationship. Let him come to you and always be delighted to see him. Course, you can find out where he's hanging out and just "happen" to be there. Seems like he wants what you want. If it happens without a struggle, it's meant to be. Godloveya.

2006-10-20 06:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0 0

Well it may be worth a try to rekindle the flame, he may have changed from the old problems to some newer uglier ones !!! So you may want to think about it.. Just date him don't move in together or go off and elope or anything just see how things work out.. Take it slowly.. It may be a reason he is still single.. Maybe he hasn't matured..You know some men don't they're just like Peter Pan and they never want to grow up !!!

2006-10-20 13:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0 1

give him a chanch....what have you got to lose? If you're both single and willing, maybe you've both evolved in all those years. My vote says to go for it. Why not go out on a limb? That's where the fruit is.

2006-10-20 13:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nose 2 · 1 0

Did he seem interested in getting together? You can start by asking him out to lunch. Don't focus on the past, though. Start with your life as it is now and see if you click.

2006-10-20 13:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by draws_with_crayons 3 · 1 0

Love is like prison, once you get in, it's hard to get out. You stress, you cry, you do things you never thought you would.

seems like your love never faded for him.
Work on it this time. Make it last for a lifetime

2006-10-20 13:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1 0

Does he act like he still has feelings for you? If he does go for it. Don't be afraid to make the first move. Good luck.

2006-10-20 13:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by love-a 2 · 0 0

Go for it....you only live once.

2006-10-20 13:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kel 2 · 0 0

do him

2006-10-20 13:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by DECATSDEAD 3 · 0 1

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