I dont see them again, then I think I will end up alone one day, because no guys today seem to respect a virgin today and this is sad.
2006-10-20 05:39:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Maybe the guy wants to use you and is guilty for that cuz you are a virgin and the first time should be better than that, so you are fortunate they back out. A guy that really likes YOU will never be turned off by that, believe me. It is nice.
2006-10-20 05:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of yourself and your decision to remain a virgin. I was a virgin when I got married and I am still glad that is the decision I made, and that was over twenty years ago. Every generation of women have struggled with this decision since the beginning of time. I can remember talking to my grandmothers and great aunts about this topic and their generations struggled with the decision back in the early 1900's. Even though people would like to think that no one was having sex back then, there were many "shotgun weddings..." You will know when you have met the man that will love you and respect you for that. The ones that turn away are just looking for yet another sexual conquest, and could care less about you as a person. Continue to be proud of your decision, and when the time is right and the man is right for you, love and respect and a sexual relationship will happen. God bless you and have a good day!
2006-10-20 05:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel sad now but think of it this way at least you saved yourself from the pain that would happen later...think about it if a guy stayed with you because you are a virgin & then you let him take your virginity then he would probably have left you either tthe next day or we he thought he found someone who he thinks looks better or something like that. At least you still have your virginity.
If guys turn away from you because you tell them that you are a virgin then that means that they were not right for you & that just means that you are saving yourself for the right guy to come along! So don't dispair because there is somebody out there for everybody :)
2006-10-20 05:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Davey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU!! It's great to see people standing up for themselves and conserving one of the most precious aspects of youth. Have no doubts about staying a virgin, because someday, you may meet a guy who doesn't want to be with someone who has slept with anyone else. And when you find him, you will love each other even more because you can both experience intimacy for the first time together, and that, my dear, is priceless. So hold your head up high, smile, and don't worry about what the people in your life right now may think. You will move on and meet new people, and maybe fall into the greatest relationship you will ever have.
2006-10-20 09:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats to you for still being a virgin-I respect that. Don't tell them that you are a virgin so quickly, give them time to get to know you first and then tell them. Any boy with common sense will respect that in a girl. Good Luck
2006-10-21 05:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad. I love that you have not given in to all of those deluded guys. I am a 17 year old virgin my self and love every minute of it. God will send you your man someday. there are plenty of them out there. Most of the guys in my church are virgins aswell and all of them respect you just the same!! Stay strong and patient
2006-10-20 06:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by whymachine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are soooooooo many losers in the world.
They dont deserve you. Also you dont deserve any of them
Respect yourself and take pride in what you are.
You are pure and you will have a same kind of a person sooner or later.
By the way I rated thumbs up for this question. I am glad that all the people responded in a similar way, means still we have sensible people in this **** world
Wish you all the best
2006-10-20 06:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might suggest you look elsewhere. I can't help but wonder if the guys are thinking that they aren't going to get anywhere with you so they move on, in which case, you don't want to be in a relationship with someone like that anyway.
I used to think I was going to end up alone but now I'm happily married with two wonderful daughters. Don't give up!
2006-10-20 05:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by dsr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they turn away from you because you are a virgin then thank your lucky stars because that probably they were looking for something easy so they could get some........Be patient someone will come around that wont be after you for just sex. If they can wait for that then they are worth keeping.
2006-10-20 05:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be easier to be a virgin but in this sex obsessed society we don't value virgins. But morals and keeping your virginity is a good thing and don't you forget about it. If they run away they weren't the guy for you anyway.
2006-10-20 05:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by jamocha_1700 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋