im 17 year old and i live in fl and last week i was dancing with a girl, we kissed and she didnt have a problem with that so i started touchin her on her private parts and she didn say anything 5 minutes layer i see this big security guy takin me outside of the club and turned me in with the police i was arrested and i spent 2 days i a detention center and they sent me home because i only scored 12 point and because i told the truth, i have court next thursday and i dont know whats going to happend to me this is the first time that i get arrested and im affraid to go to jail please write bak as soon as possible thanx
2006-10-20 05:39:26 · 17 answers · asked by el perro 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
First of all you are a pervert. What gave you the signal that you could go ahead a touch someone that you just met. ewww. You obviously should not be "clubbing". You are a little boy that needs to go to school and focus on educating your self. As For the charges, it all depends on how old the girl was. You are lucking you are not 18 yet, even though there's a possibility that you could be charged as an adult. You'll probably be charged for leud conduct, but again it depends on you previous record and specific florida laws. Good luck, buddy
2006-10-20 05:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by vanydelarocha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dummy - you were in a public place. Just because you are in a club - doesn't mean you can do things that are meant to do in privacy. Boy - you need an education as to how to be a man. Start thinking, Dummy.
Hopefully because you are 17 - this won't be on you permanent record and thus you'd be a registered sex offender (it's a tough life). Initiate your own counseling - meaning get an appointment with someone with creditials and get into therapy. If you can get some letters of recommendation - you need some good character references. Let it be known to the judge that community service (and awareness) would be the best way to punish you instead of jail.
Well - guess time to grow up. Hopefully you didn't really mess things up - but if you did then make the best of it. Do something positive with it. Life will be more difficult but that doesn't mean that you can't make a big difference or be successful or happy. It's up to you. Don't wine and stand up for yourself good and bad.
2006-10-20 06:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hubby needs to keep his daggummed hands off her!!!!! It's different if it was his own little kid and it was innocent play. Your mother was right to be concerned though maybe her concern went t little too far. When I was a young teenager, I was molested by a then brother-in-law. It took me years to realize that the 3 years previous to the two actual incest situations, all his horseplay was leading up to what he did. My sister had no idea what was going on until I told her. Your step-sons may not understand that what daddy did was inappropriate and secondly, they will stick up for daddy no matter what. Because of this, let it be a warning. Do not allow your husband to be alone with any children other than his own. Be on guard and if you see any inappropriate behavior and do not report it, you are just as guilty as he is.
2016-03-28 02:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well little fella.i know you re young and i don't know if you have ever been told this.Its one thing to worry about what man can do to you,but its a whole other thing to worry about what your CREATOR thinks about your behavior.He is the one that you will have to answer to on that GREAT and TERRIBLE day.If i were you i would be more worried about your image with him.If you get in trouble let it be for something that you have done right,trust me people get even more offended at someone that stands up for the truth than for someone that does evil,there's a lot of support for that.Oh and by the way when you get married there will be lots of time for all that stuff you wanted to do to that girl,and also think about your actions and how they affect you and those around you.Think with the head on your shoulders and you'll get more out of life.
2006-10-20 05:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not about any laws in your state but I have been in your situation once upon a time. Try not to show off to anybody I know it was a feather in your cap so to speak but showing off gets you into trouble. It is better no PDA(public displays of affection). Like the old Charlie Rich song says"Behind closed doors". You should be certain
2006-10-20 05:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest, and she was letting you, say "im just a guy and she wasnt saying no or anything how did i know she didnt like it?" some girls are freaking evil. Since your 17, you might get off not having permenant charges, but the most they could do is charge you will unlawful conduct or sexual assault.. Which wouldnt be to uncommon. im sorry dude, women are b!tches.
2006-10-20 05:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont know what you will get but be glad I didnt see you doing that. You wouldnt have to worry about the police.
2006-10-20 05:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is this girl? you should of stated that, i would imagine that would have something to do with it. why would you start feeling on a girl in a public place and someone you just meet. i realize you are only 17years old, but you need to learn how to control your impulses. it only takes one time.
2006-10-20 05:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, what a smart chick to keep her cool and do the right thing. Hopefully you learn something from this. What charges will you get? I really don't know and I really don't care.
2006-10-20 05:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lesson #1
Don't grope women in public places..most women don't want to be seen as a slot machine.
2006-10-20 05:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋