I really dont know what to do, they all seem to talk about sex, and I am not ready for that yet as I am still a virgin.
2006-10-20 05:26:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Hmm... at least you haven't done anything yet which is good self control on your part. Do you display any sexual interest when you are with them or wear any provocative clothing?
2006-10-20 05:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't all about sex, and you may just be looking in the wrong places for a relationship. I find that many people make the mistake of trying to go to dating sites, bars, or other places to meet people, but of course guys in those scenes are looking for sex. Find some friends, some guy friends, and don't worry about a relationship until you've established an actual connection with someone. Putting them in the friend zone sounds harsh, but you need someone who knows you and knows your stance on sex. Otherwise, if you feel that you really, really need a relationship, google some abstinence dating websites. There are a few out there, and the guys you meet are going to be in the same position as you =]
2016-05-22 05:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, guys like that are desperate and you don't want those kinds of guys, those are fly by night kind of people and for some reason sex equals manhood to a guy, I don't know why that is but do not have sex if you are not ready. Tell the guy how you really feel. If he takes "no" very well and respects it, then he likes you deeper than sex. If he doesn't like "no" then that's a red flag and he just wants sex. I wouldn't do it. Sex shouldn't be rushed. The right person who is loving and kind and respectful will understand and the moment will come when it will be right. Keep telling the guy "no" .:O)
2006-10-21 10:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by poshbaby24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your virginity until you are ready. Sex is a normal thing, but not until you are ready. Boys just are controlled by nature to want to propagate the species; that's all. Girls, on the other hand, are driven to nurture and see that species flourish. You should learn more about this in health classes as you get older. If you have the misfortune of being in a school district that doesn't teach this, you may have to wait until college to find out about it. Unfortunately, too many kids find out about it the hard way. Stick to your guns, you'll get to enjoy it when you get older.
2006-10-20 05:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 17 & my best friend is having the same problem. i'm sure in one sense, you want to give in... but i really suggest you don't. it might seem like other girls who have had sex look down on you, but it isn't even like that. i would know cuz i've been with a few guys and it wasn't even worth it. keep your virginity and if a guy really wants some from you, then let him wait. most guys like a chase anyways. they want what they can't have. if you give it to them, depending on your personality, you will either be really hurt and feel guilt or you won't care and it will just become a lifestyle. it's not a good lifestyle and it don't feel good emotionally. sex is something that happens with love. if he loves you, he WILL wait. you are so worth it girl. and as far as the guys go, they are horny little f*ckers! i hate guys who just want sex. they need to get beyond their penis fo reals!
2006-10-20 07:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just give this aura of innocence that every guy can't resist and will you have sex with me now...I mean......some folks can't help trying to resist the urges that you will sleep with me and....that is to say....that you must be firm in your decision not to bend into the temptation that comes with I will jump your bones now and....
Seriously, for many guys, any woman is a conquest and they want only the sex and not care about you in the least. You must be steadfast in your hopes and desires. You will find someone that you share some on a more personal intimate, soul-searching level that does not involve sex.
2006-10-20 05:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you...stay that way.
Being a guy, I'd probably be doing the same thing...begging for sex.
It's natural, if its not forced.
We're guys, you're a chick and sex is part of everyones instinctive response to someone we find attractive.
But stay a virgin until you meet the right guy.
2006-10-20 05:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out until you are ready.
1. Guys are confused about how to treat women. Guys stereotype women because of what they see on T.V. and because how women are going above and beyond to try to figure out what will please a guy sexually in order to have a relationship with them.
2. And there are a lot of guys out there that are looking for just sex. And that's because the message is loud and clear that that is all women provide now-a-days.
However, there are plenty of guys out there who want a good relationship. But they are not so quick to say it if they don't want to appear "soft". And they are not so quick to say they want a good relationship because they don't want to get trapped with a woman who is not looking for the same thing.
Luckily, guys don't hide the fact that all they really want is sex. So, when you find out that's what they really want-move on. Quickly. Because he is stupid. In his mind, giving you sex is a great service to you because he thinks you are like other women who want nothing but sex.
SOLUTION
When you find a young man who appreciates a young lady who is not having sex, stick to your guns. He'll test you to see if you truly want to wait to have sex. Why, because he'll tell his friends he has found a virgin. They'll tell him he is out of his mind and that they don't exist. His friends will say you are trying to trick him. So, he will have to prove it to them and himself. Once he sees you are genuine, he will love you and marry you. And then you can have all the sex you want.
2006-10-20 05:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Only God knows... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't listen to them...if they are asking for sex from u then they are not in love with u...they basically want to use u. well, i was asked many times, but i always said no...guys respected me for that...thats why, my ex boyfriends still have feelings for me n wish i could be with them forever....being virgin before marriage is a sign that you are a wise girl. guys like that very much.
2006-10-20 08:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a very confused girl with a great body. You need
to sart answering questions or you're gonna lose all your points.
2006-10-20 05:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋