i need help big time?

Question

For the last two day i feel like no one cares about me and that if i killed myself that one body would care. i also think that no body would date a girl like me.I need some one to talk to

Answer 1

A girl like you?? Hon nothing is wrong with you. And as for no one missing you if you killed yourself, a lot of people cares about you. Don't you care about yourself? Don't get to hung up on the fact that you are single right now. Just remain happy and the right person will come to you. The only reason why you haven't met anyone yet is because so far no one is good enough for you. God will bring the right person to you and you will be very happy. For now just live your life and enjoy everyday you have here because its not promised.

Just keep your head up baby girl and keep smiling

Answer 2

Hi, I've been right where you are right now. I know what you are going through and its good you are reaching out and trying to find someone to talk to and help you through this. A counselor would be really helpful too. I'm sure you are a really great girl. You just have to realize that about you first. You gotta love yourself before someone can really truly love you. There are a lot of guys out there that would probably love to date you. There are so many things I could tell you but I can't tell you in this answer. If you want you can IM me on AIM: MinHee375, or yahoo messenger: lolson375 or skaterchick375 if you need someone to talk to.

Answer 3

Trust me, people would care if you were no longer here. I was just thinking of my own "Most Suicidal Day Ever" this morning. I wanted to do it, but I just didn't have the guts to do it. Now that I've gotten help and moved past it, I'm so glad that I was strong.

You never know what you're here to accomplish. If you're young, you may be the person who goes to medical school and finds a cure for cancer. If you're a little older, you could be the parent or mentor of every kids' dreams, who shapes their lives into creating a better world. If you're older, you could be the voice of wisdom and experience that people turn to when they need help.

Every person is valuable, and the social scene you're facing right now is not the finish line, it's just another step in the marathon of life. Dating is not all it's cut out to be, and it is certainly not the measure of your worth.

Please, talk to your doctor. He/She can refer you to a counselor and help you to resolve your depression. Life's really not all bad and not everyone is out to get you, though I know it can seem that way sometimes. I'm on Zoloft now, and I have been for 7 years. I've seen the bottom of the pit, and I've seen everything spread out at my feet... But it was all seen with a better sense of perspective with a little help.

Take care sweetie, and send me a message if you need to talk.

Answer 4

I think we all feel that way at some stage in our lives,i know i do,but there is always somebody that would be devastated if you were not around just think of all your friends and family I'm sure they would rather have you,more people care than you realise,i don't even know you and i care so there is at least 1 person[me] i will try and get you on messenger and see if you feel like a chat i will be bjw9865 so add me when you if you want to.

Answer 5

you shouldnt feel that way. Im sure you are a sweet person you just need someone who understands you. I think you should take some time out for yourself. In this time you should find out what makes you happy the most and try to focus on those things. If you decide you have to make changes then make changes but dont feel bad. Nobody's perfect you will be ok just hang in there

Answer 6

Aw there's people that care a lot about you I'm sure. Everyone has special things about themselves. And you do too I'm sure. Try to put a smile on your face and build up your confidence in yourself because what others see on the outside can make a big difference in your life and how your life will be. Good luck to you and hey smile OK? ;o)

Answer 7

There is someone out there for everyone. What you need is a change of scenery or people.....killing yourself is not the way to solve your problems. You know that people that jump off bridges to kill themselves half way down they are thinking to themselves what a dumb *** I was to think this is the right thing to do......thump. Not cool. Also people that kill themselves burn in hell for eternity....sorry sister there are answers out there but killing yourself is not the way out. Where is your mom and dad they care no matter what go and visit them and tell them what you are considering, I'm sure they would tell you that they would miss you very much...and ask you not to do it. Come on use logical thinking and take care of yourself and stop being selfish. Think of your family and the people that do care for you.

Answer 8

This too shall pass. Know that! If you keep feeling this way, talk to your parents/Dr./counsellor. Dating isn't everything and your time will come. It's pretty hard to want to date a depressed person who walks around sad and down.

Answer 9

Trust me, your family and friends all care about you. Life these days is hectic and its not uncommon for us to stay in our little world, and forget to call a friend, hug a family member..etc. Make plans with a friend or family member to go out for dinner and a movie or something. Get out of the house. Check out local activities or something. You have to love yourself before others will. I promise, if you killed yourself, your family, friends and God would cry and be devastated. Please talk to them, God Bless.

Answer 10

People care about you! Pray to God and tell Him how you feel. He will listen and be there for you. If you kill yourself, you'll be hurting A LOT OF PEOPLE and make everything worse. Plus, you'll be damned for all eternity. I don't think you want that.

Talk to a counselor about your problems.