I need some major confidence boosters!!!! things to tell myself....things to do.....things(not drugs) to make me be a feel like im on top of the world!!!! i need alot of detail.... not just *get a new hairstyle!* *go shopping!* i need lots of good stuff please!!!
thanx and if its really good and really detailed you'll get 10 points
2006-10-20 05:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by Ivy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
heres a few things that i do;
APPEARENCE...
*Have a beauty night, anything to do with pampering you'reself and a nice long hot bath.
*Have a change, like change you're haircut, hair style, add a bit of fake tan(works wonders!) and i find that adding a slick of white tips to you're nails makes me feel comfident and clean!
HAPPINESS;
*Listen to some happy music, i love doing this and singing to old tunes, so click onto the music channels!!
*Do something that you have always wanted to do; carnt affor dit, then get saving!!
SHYNESS;
*If infront of a crowd think to youreself, whats the worst thats going to happen and thing of all the positives that will happen if you do it.
FAVOURITES;
*change you're bedroom around,it makes me smile knowing i get to choose where everything goes.
*Have a day out with friends, or faimly. They always cheer me up!
REMEBER;
*enjoy life no matter what is thrown at you!
I know they may not be the best tips but they certainly cheer me up!
2006-10-20 05:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go out and do something that you have always wanted to do. Even if it does not turn out right at least you can say you did something for you. Then treat yourself with a reward whether it be a day at the spa or a birthday cake. Just tell yourself that you are worth it.
2006-10-20 12:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My confidence is always boosted by creating something - a painting, a sculpture, a book, a new dessert. Anything I think of. Because when I've achieved something, that's the greatest feeling in the world.
2006-10-20 12:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Ettejin of Wern 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask this to your parents (very important to have truly good relationship with them, they're the only ones that love you so much) or your boyfriend or the people you love and who love you.
And if you feel that the people that surround you don't understand you or listen to you try different ways of asking them things.
They'll certainly give you better answers than all of us strangers.
And they'll probably help you more practically.
You know...give you things, do things with you, hug you and caress you...
2006-10-20 13:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go shopping, then pig out on a bar of choccie. also a good natter with my friends and a bit of a gossip gives me and my life an upbeat. i find that exercising is relaxing and then i also get some me time to think.
2006-10-20 12:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by bxiok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go On ebay Or just get out hang out with ur friends have kids get them a babysitter just do something u wanna do go ashopping
2006-10-20 12:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Samm...eh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
draw a bath.. light some candles, and just think about how much you've accomplished so far.. and how much you've grown..
also you can save some money having cash in my hand always makes me happy.. I hate shopping.. it just pisses me off.... you know you could exercise.. run a few miles, this is what usually boost me....
2006-10-20 12:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by apple seed contour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling yourself that you have a lot to offer. If someone does not bring anything to the table then i need not worry about them.
2006-10-20 12:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by T.T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl, you r askin' 4 a miracle! i m no miracle granter but i can tell you to point out all the positive assets about yourself. maybe if you tell yourself that you are nice, your pretty, your positive, your good, your spunky, your fashionable, your upbeat, your sweet, your awesome, you can sing or dance, your athletic, your creative, or whatever else that you love about yourself!
2006-10-20 12:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by ichigo_mixed_with_aelita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go fishing on the Elbe river
2006-10-20 12:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by dale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋