I think it would help our sex life if my husband would watch porn with me in the bedroom.I look at it on line but he doesn't know yet.How do i tell him and how do i get him interested?
2006-10-20 05:04:37 · 22 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't know there were men who weren't interested in it. Just tell him what you like. Or e-mail him some clips of your favorite stuff.
2006-10-20 05:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ken.
The next time you two go to pick out a movie for an evening , go to a place that has an adult section. Take him in there, and start looking through the titles, you'll both end up laughing, but may learn more about what trips his trigger?
If you know he won't go, try to find a few, maybe borrow some from a friend ( you probably already have a friend in mind who has some) .
Plug one in when he's heading to the bedroom, and ask him if he'll watch TV with you ;-)
It shouldn't be too difficult , unless he's one of those rare ones.
Have some new lotion or oil ready too!
2006-10-20 05:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy so by definition that means that I look at porn online.
I had difficulty looking at porn with my wife. It may be that like me he is worried that the porn that gets him off may make him seem out there or like a freak to the mrs.
Over time my wife and I have introduced porn into the bedroom at first the kind of softcore stuff that I thought she would be more comfortable with and gradually introding some of the kinkier things I liked. She turned out to be very receptive to it and even had a kink or two that surpised me. It does add spice to things....
2006-10-20 05:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are visual, so I 'm surprised that this maybe an issue, having said that:
Here is what iI encourage you to do.
1. Put on some sexy lingerie ( Vintage stockings held up by a black garterbelt
2. Add some sexy higheels
3. add one porno in the TV and tell your man you want to have sex just like your favorite scene in the movie.
let me know if it works, I would be totally turned on But I'm different that hubby
Good luck
2006-10-20 06:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your sex life shot? why would you not just ask him what you can do for him to fire his engines? ask him if he wants his balls tickled while you blow him,better yet, wake him up to a blohjob before he goes to work. ask him to tell you what he has always wanted of you, but might have been to ashamed to tell you,To get someone interested in porn is playing with a loaded gun, why add another vice to life's strains? In my opinion, to watch porn while having sex, is being aroused at the sight of another person other than your partner...which could lead to fantasy that becomes obsession, why not learn to make the ole dawg do new tricks, learn to use what you have( with in the legal limits)
and make his hammer hard at the thought of home time, its your bedroom and your body, if you got bush shave it, if its always shaved let it grow, keep experimenting (hes your guinea pig to finding out how to make him want you). but by the sound of your question and what you have given to analise, its you with the void in your sex life that he isn't filling. And it would be wise to ask yourself why a grown woman would have to hide the fact shes looking at porn, stop feeling dirty about it and loose some guilt tell him your secret as soon as you can and stop training yourself how to lie to him, as it gets easier and easier to lie the guilt keeps getting greater and greater as time goes on.....then you get caught !
hope you find your sparks
2006-10-20 05:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by madeawareofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful what you wish for, you may get it. Porn can become an addiction and escalate meaning the regular sex act will no longer be satisfying and you/he will need more and more devious acts to get excited. Let me ask, are you now addicted? Can you stop looking at it?
2006-10-20 05:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad idea. Porn is very addicting. Before long that's all you'll both be doing and it can cause very major problems in a relationship including affairs. You need to stop and don't get him involved in it.
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2006-10-20 06:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeee Why would you want him interested in porn? He will start lusting after the porn women in addition to you his wife. BE GREEDY WITH YOUR HUSBANDS DESIRE: WANT ONLY YOURSELF AS HIS ONE TRUE VENUS GODDESS OF DESIRE. Don't give the "other woman" a free entrance into your love life. Today its porn women tomorrow its some real life floozy he met that reminds him of the porn girl # 4 and where will you be then?
If you want to spice up your life read the kama sutra and make sure the only women he is picturing himself is wonderful lovable YOU !!!
2006-10-20 05:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by T. Watcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL this is the first time I've heard that a woman wants her man to look at porn. Most don't like it for many reasons. I don't mind it that much, but it makes me feel like my man needs to look at someone else to get hard for me. And I can't help compareing myself to them and feeling inadequate in some way.
2006-10-20 05:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to a sex store and stroll through the video section together. Point some out to him.
2006-10-20 05:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he's NOT interested? Sounds like you haven't discussed it with him yet.
I suggest pulling out a magazine or just popping in a video the next time y'all are about to make love. Trust me (unless he's already told you that he doesn't like it), he'll love it.
2006-10-20 05:10:14 · answer #11 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋