and there always so agressive about it and tend to do things that if a man were to do to a woman he'd probably get arrested
i had a friend who was hangin around some gay chick and she kissed her in responce to the kiss she kinda was uhm....beaten....BADLY i almost felt sorry for her
why does it seem like gays have a hard time excepting the fact that somepeople can be straight without being remotely curious about the same sex
2006-10-20 04:54:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
omg they do so i see it so often its ridiculous i have gay family members who do it and they'll tell you about it themselves
2006-10-20 04:59:54 · update #1
who says she hated them genius why cant you hang around one without bein intrested in them
2006-10-20 05:01:57 · update #2
never said all of them and why are people so defensive about this gay thing
2006-10-20 05:05:43 · update #3
If I was a Lesbian I would want to screw as many women as possible. I am a straight guy and I still want to screw as many women as possible !
2006-10-20 06:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that this is accurate. Gay people know that this is a preference, not a sexual orientation that you can simply change over from who you are! I think what you are trying to explain is that someone was not gracious in refusing a love pass from another person, gay or straight. There are ways of declining a pass irregardless of the sexual orientation. A simple and polite, "I'm sorry, I don't sway this way" would be acceptable. Or "I appreciate your interest in me, but I am not able to return the same feelings for you." If someone got beaten badly by making a pass, then it is the aggressor who is at fault, not the person trying to express feelings or passion. This could and should have been handled in a far more humane way! I also feel that most people do have a curiosity about others with preferences different from their own, but it is true that not everyone is curious about same sex preference. I don't know that one can generalize gays as being particularly close-minded regarding this, and I might wonder if there is a bit of biased consideration when you made that statement.
2006-10-20 12:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by mystraspell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So lets see...Your friend was Kissed by another woman and in response to that kiss--your friend beat her, badly. Ya that sounds like there is no anger issues there. First of all, to say they "try to turn other women gay" shows how you really have no clue at all about this subject. How many Lesbians do "you try to turn straight"? How many hetros do you know that try this, to turn them straight.? Just about as many gay/lesbian do.....almost none........I am amazed at the fact "straight " people can be so concerned about gay folks.
It is not a disease, they will not harm you...but be careful they might be trying to turn you gay....First they would have to turn you into someone that had at least as many brains as a rock........
2006-10-20 12:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a lesbian I have never asked any straight person to be gay, you cant change a person its something a person wants. It maybe just curiousity or it might be the person having feelings for the same sex but no one can turn anyone gay not even the best of us lol.
2006-10-20 13:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by mamacitac9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. You simply cant say ALL gay women do this. Its not a different species with different ways of living! Maybe you should look around you, you'll find that many gay women in this society have a hard time finding another gay woman to be with and i think mistakes can be made. (and yes you can get hurt too like your friend) I dont think that if a gay woman makes a pass at another not gay lady she is trying to make her gay. She is probably just trying to find out if she is gay or not.
2006-10-20 12:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is garbage. Lesbians do not "turn" or even try to turn other women gay. I don't know where you live, but from what you're saying, I can guess under a rock somewhere.
Get out more.
2006-10-20 12:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every gay girl is like that, i never make a move until i know they are into me. MY girlfriend now had never been with a girl before but she just fell for me.....she said she was always curious but anyway, I didnt push her she wanted it just as much as me. Some girls are just aggressive just like some guys are aggressive.
2006-10-20 13:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To remotely imply beating someone is okay - is wrong!!!
I also frankly don't believe your story. You are second-handedly bashing.
Moreover, if women like you why would you be threatened? Is it because they really don't like you? Take a look at that - why don't women like you?
2006-10-20 12:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hates lesbians enough to beat one up, why is she hanging around them?
Or did you just make that up because you don't know why all the really cool girls like other girls instead of you?
Grow up!
2006-10-20 12:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are you talking about? Of all the lesbians I have ever encountered, not one single one has ever pressured me in any way to be gay. Maybe it is just you with the problem?
2006-10-20 12:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Swirlgirl 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋