Me and my BF have been together for 4 months. We're both 28. I stay at his house 5 days a week and he stays at mine twice a week. We are always together. We get along great. We've even talked about one day getting married. We're going on our first vacation next week. We're very excited. I'm just wondering when he's going to ask me to move in. I already told him he just has to say the word and I'm there. He's made it very clear that he wants me to move in but he hasn't come out and asked me. Some of my friends say that after Florida I'll be moving in with him. Some even say he may propose in Florida. Do you think he'll ask me to move in when we're in FL?
2006-10-20 04:32:31 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think either a proposal or a moving-in invitation is inevitable, unless he's an idiot savant, which you wouldn't Probably be dating him in that case, so rule that one out. i hope one or the other happens for you (preferably marriage right? lol.) if anything, it would be more beneficial in the sense that financially you could combine, and only have to pay half the bills! plus, you are both more "accessible" to each other, which is always a plus. if he DOES talk about marriage a lot, then i would imagine he would, but 4 months is kind of short...u know him better than me. i wish you luck and a great relationship.
2006-10-20 04:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by anabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you just wish you could step ahead time and find out. We dont really know the guy or your situation. I think the best way is know is how your relationship will end up after the vacation. You didnt say how long the vacation was, but lets say its for a week. That means you guys will spend almost every single second together. This will determine your bond when you guys see each other every day.
2006-10-20 11:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. If you are already spending that amount of time together then that is the next step. Although, you might not want to rush things since you have only been together for 4 months. Take some time to get to know each other WELL before you live together.
2006-10-20 11:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl who knows, I couldn't tell you what a mans thinking for anything in the world, and he probably can't either. Men, or should I say most men are so spontaneous that they don't know what they are gonna do until a switch flips in their head to do it and then they can't wait another minute to ask or do it. Just play it by ear. Have a great time in Florida.
2006-10-20 11:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living together. Keep your own space until you're both ready to commit to marriage. Anything less and someone may lose what they have now if things don't work out!
2006-10-20 11:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by mlist32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with a man that I was engaged to and did not marry, and I have lived with a man that I was married to and got a divorce. Take it from me. Do not move in with him. If you two break up, it will be just like a divorce.
2006-10-20 11:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by ShacklesOff.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally wrong. Get rid of him and start over with someone that you don't have sex with before you're married, unless the both of you can get a clue.
What a bunch of typical stupid responses. They're all giving yoiu liberal advice, but I'm the only one telling you what you need to hear.
2006-10-20 11:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think let it happen naturally. It will happen when and if it does. Mean time hold off letting friends tell you what your relationship should or should not be. You will be happier in life if you do!!
2006-10-20 11:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP...its looking that way!!!!.... but if he doesnt dont feel bad or pressure him moving in is a big step you know!!!!... hes probbally just waiting for the "RIGHT TIME"!!!!!!!!!!!.... i mean i KNOW that right now its the right time but you know how MEN get!!!...LOL...LOL...:)...:)...:)
NO offense GUYS!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!! (with marriage) and everything else!
2006-10-20 11:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt worry, he will ask you in his own time- besides why would you wanna give up your own place? things change when you live with someone
2006-10-20 11:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋