Need some advice. I'm into this girl, but she has a b/f who is my friend though we're not really really close friends. Anyway, I think his girl is throwing messages my way, but I'm not sure. We get along great, we have same tastes in music, things of interests, philosophy, just overall she's really easy to talk to. The girl and I didn't become friends until after she starting going out with my friend about 3 years ago. Within the past year though, we've chatted more and have gotten to know each other especially in the last several months. We tend to look at each other alot, and she always seem to stand really close to me intimately. We haven't hung out that much for her to be that comfortable around me. Overall she is pretty proper and reserve with people, but with me she's just really open. I think she is confused about her feelings as there are mix messages, but more positives than negatives. She's talkative, but gets really quiet when I talk about other girls
2006-10-20 04:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by Hav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a bit more things..
my friend is my friend, but he does seem to take advantage of her and doesn't always treat her all that great...Also her and I have hung out several times by ourselves and it was nerve racking for me but great. I have to say that it was a nice time. We did everyting I suppose like we were a couple except for the physical aspects. Lately, whenever her, her b/f and I hang out, she's been directing her comments and questions more at me than at him when she didn't use to before. I don't want to, but I'm definitely into her and I can't help it
Now the problem is that she will be done with school this december and her and her b/f will be moving. So I basically i only really have two months left. I have been thinking about just telling her how I feel about her...I dunno
...actually when we've hung out, we did have some intimate physical moments like sitting just really close to each other when there was all this space on her couch, but that's been it. we've been intimate
2006-10-20 04:27:58 · update #1
yeah, maybe I am reading into it too much and I am a "douche" though I don't act any differently around her than I do my other friends or rather I don't try any harder around her, my actions are I think are pretty natural...
2006-10-20 04:36:32 · update #2
so. i think youre reading into things too much. she stands next to you? that definitely means she likes you! no. and just because she can talk to you doesnt mean she likes you. and even if it did. you would really give up one of youre best friends for a girl that youll end up breaking up with anyway. wow. you are a douche.
2006-10-20 04:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would like to point out that more fights and shootings are usually the result of a female. If this person is any level of a friend I wouldn't even consider this girl available. She needs to end the relationship with her boyfriend and then if she wants to she is free to go out with whomever. She could also just be enjoying the attention from you. I personally would never get involved with anyone who is already involved. Good luck
2006-10-20 11:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by bartlettthree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love triangle is never an easy situation to resolve. First you must ask yourself if you're willing to risk losing your friendship with her current beau. Secondly you'll have to let your feelings for her known to her and she will have to resolve her own feelings toward breaking off one relationship to begin anew. Perhaps it's fate and you and she were meant to be together but you'll never know for sure if you don't act. Holding back as you are now won't resolve anything. You must go forward or abandon your feelings for her. Good luck.
2006-10-20 11:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by S T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea she just seems confused. Even tho she is with her bf.. she still feels this connection with you. Her relationship with him might be getting boring after these 3 years idk. It just seems to me that u 2 have chemistry.. you cant make her break up with her bf to go out with u.. but if she makes that choice i believe you and her would be really good together. :-)
2006-10-20 11:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by deanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you but doesn't know what to do. Tell her how you feel and see where it goes from there.
Good Luck!
2006-10-20 11:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE DO WHAT UR HEART TELLS U IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS MORE IN TRUSTED IN U THEN SHE IS IN UR FRIEND I'M 28 U ONLY LIVE ONCE MAKE UR SELF HAPPY BEFORE ANYBODY ELSE
2006-10-20 11:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think too much try touching her hand when you get away and see look in eye to tell how much she like you.
2006-10-20 11:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you make her moist. Go for it.
2006-10-20 11:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋