2006-10-20 04:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by justinslovelymrs 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I say go but some movies and watch them together and turn it into a game and let him earn points when he does it right, talk him through it and let him show u somethings even if u already know that way u can get yours and he will not know you just gave him a lesson on how to please you down there.
2006-10-20 04:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Loving Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience, patience, and more patience......for the most part, women must have the wisdom of Solomon to be able to make some guys understand that they're not doing it right. Some of us guys enjoy it when a woman feels open and confident enough to just tell us...even give us directions...because we are more than willing to do our best for her. Unfortunately, there are also too many guys who's egos are too vulnerable and insecure....and they react offended, insulted and outright shocked that a woman would dare tell them that they're just not doing it for you. It's the "small minds" factor! If the guy is really into you, and his male ego is in the right place....and if you approach him in a subtle manner about it......he should come around. When you approach a guy about something like that, you can't just right-out tell him..."Honey I'm sorry, but you just don't do it for me". It is a big shot to a man's ego.....it's like telling him; "You're not man enough for me". Some men will take it well....most will react in a defensive mode. If you approach him in a subtle way....and you see him open up to the idea, things are going to get alot better in the bedroom. If he instantly reacts negatively, or defensively....better get ready from some frustrating nights, and maybe the purchase of a little battery-powered friend.
I hope it works out!
Best of Luck!
2006-10-20 11:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about orally or just intercourse?
Well which ever, just get on top and move yourself around!!! After he hears and sees that you are more satisfied, he will just fall into the groove. (I hope)
You better do it before you get married though. Who wants to go through the rest off there lives with someone how is not satisfying all of there needs??? I know loving and wanting to spend the rest of you life with someone is not based on sex, but it does play an important factor.
If he's not happy with what you are doing in bed, do you think he would say something to you?
Think realistically, most people WHO cheat are doing it because they are not satisfied with all their partner is doing to/for them! The worst thing to do is cheat on your partner and/or have your partner cheat on you.
So before things escalate, either let him know, or just show him. Buy some porn videos and point out what you like.
2006-10-20 11:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Due Dec23rd...It's a GIRL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not always a win win situation. Married women who were polled said about 80% of the time they dont get anything out of sex. It just works better for guys, lol.
You just have to tell him what you want, and what works and doesnt work. He cant feel what you feel, so he has no idea.
2006-10-20 11:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be vocal without being bossy. tell your man know what you like. use visuals for instance if you show him how and where then maybe he will follow your lead. watch movies that demonstrate what you are interested in having done, and express that to him.
2006-10-20 11:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by yaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply tell him what you want. That would be the best way,he Will not know unless you tell him. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-20 11:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perform a demonstration for him, using his thingy as a replica of your "down there" little thingy, butt don't use your finger, just explain how to use his finger;) LOL
2006-10-20 11:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he takes a nap, then give him a little surprise.
2006-10-20 11:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've always thought books were hlpful...show him a few ideas..get some wine and discuss some ...uhhhh...literature!!!!
good luck, baby, and god bless
2006-10-20 11:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him what you like, how you like it. What turns you on, what turns him on, just go from there.
2006-10-20 12:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by cjb48070 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋