2006-10-20 04:12:55 · 16 answers · asked by Jeff Moore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, change the way she sees you when she gets home, for example if when she gets home, she only sees you watching tv, or doing whatever men do at home.
then i would advice you to... say, make a surprise for her like, a candlelit dinner, have your sister or somebody babysit your kids and prepare this dinner. even if you just get some take out dinnners from a really nice restaurant, just take the food out of a the styrofoam plate and put it in a really nice plate and ta-dah you have a nice dinner.
or send her flowers at work and have the card that say,
"to: (_name_), I Miss YOU, Love (_ur_name_)
or IF, and i'm only saying IF, you beat her up whenever you get angry, STOP IT!!!. that should do the trick.
also, massage her once in a while.
or out of the blue, get her something really nice, that she's going to love, like a really nice dress, pair of shoes, or jewelry that you think will look really nice on her.
learn something new for her, like bake a cake or another language, then you can write her a poem with that language.
if all these don't work, then i would advice you to seek a marriage counselor.
if it still doesn't work, then, i would advice you to take a two-month trial separation. one month is too short, three months is too long.
if it still doesn't work, then and only then shall you consider, getting a divorce and moving on.
2006-10-20 04:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by shoogadigga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's time to move on necessarily, but time to reevaluate your relationship and see what's going on with it. If she is happier at work then she likely feels more appreciated there or more needed or more useful at work than at home. Talk to her and see. Maybe, if you feel comfortable with it, get some counseling. If you love your wife, don't give up so easily. Find out what can be done to make your relationship work.
2006-10-20 04:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing your part in making the home a happy place for her to be? If not, do so. Marriage is not for the purpose of making ourselves happy but if husbands were striving to make their wives happy and vice versa, mutual happiness would likely be the result. Seek counseling.
2006-10-20 04:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is time for you to give her some reasons to enjoy being home. Remember your vows? Dont just take the easy why out and quit, be a man and work at it.
2006-10-20 04:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to ask yourself why she is happier at work. Once you figure out why, then you can do something to change it. Instead of giving up and moving on like so many people do now, just give her a chance and do whatever you can to work through it. Also...some people are just like that.
2006-10-20 04:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's time for you to find out why she is more happy at work and go from there. Communication is the key.
2006-10-20 04:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was "Till wife more happy at work than home", part of your vows when you got married?
2006-10-20 04:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I thought it was worth my time,, I would try to find out WHY, she is more happy at work, then make your decision.
2006-10-20 04:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of moving out, try talking to her. If you guys can't be honest, you could try counselling. If you love her and want her, you'll try. If it all fails and you have to move out, then you know you did try. That's what matters.
2006-10-20 04:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by hackisackgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now it is time for you and your wife to go to a marriage counselor, so you can get your marriage on track! you need to try.
2006-10-20 04:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋