question about guys and weddings. I never said it was going to be me or not. I don't see it being selfish. ok well maybe if the guy couldn't bring his side of the family and his friends. However, most men that I talk too could care less what the girl wanted to do for the wedding. You would save a buck or two. Weddings tend to be too superficial anyways. Do guys really like going to receptions and do they really need them? Do men really care about going on a honey moon and do they really care what the heck their fiance is wearing on their wedding day, and where they get married? I mean come now didn't they say the wedding day is the girls day anyway. What exactly do men want to do on the wedding day or what could they not live without. you cann't say sex. In fact a lot of people don't have sex on their wedding day. I would think most guys would rather settle for the cheaper option and not all of the elaboratness that goes into a wedding.
2006-10-20 03:38:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
who cares? for each its own! My wedding is going to be on an Island and its just going to be my honey and I. And anyone else who wants to come. But its because we both want it that way.
2006-10-20 03:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men do have sex on their wedding day. From personal experience being a divorced woman...my fiance wants a traditional wedding and I don't. He wants the church, he wants the reception and he wants to actually have a honeymoon. I would just be happy going to the courthouse. So for you to say that no man really cares about their wedding and what is happening is supposition and opinion. why are you so bitter?
2006-10-20 04:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by sapphiresunstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to be married by a man of God on Holy Ground, kind of felt like it gave it more ligitimacy. A Church and a pastor served those. Other than that, it could have been a Holy Wishing Well with a migit and his seeing eye dog for witnesses for all I cared.
But the honey moon was a must! I wanted a minimum of 72 hours with no clothes. The "no clothes" ended up being ammended to "nothing decent to wear out side our room," since my wife bought lingere for our honeymoon.
2006-10-20 04:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erin,
Breath ... calm down ... Yes most men don't care about the event.....just that it happens! .... He should however care about what you want on "your" special day.
A wedding is a social & religious recognition of a union between two people .... a celebration of a mutual exclusivity contract if you will ..... its a gathering of friends to say ... good job, they love ya and good luck!
No it's not a requirement .... it's a fringe benefit!
Men want a ring and a partner ....and the honeymoon!
the honeymoon could be in the bushes, on a beach, or in a Buick ...were not that picky !
Happy trails
2006-10-20 03:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i am a girl, i agree with John63! Well said.
2006-10-20 03:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋